Rose65
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To be honest, that's why I don't get too involved.I could not be friends with someone who sounds like she and her husband have no common sense. I don't suffer fools gladly.
To be honest, that's why I don't get too involved.I could not be friends with someone who sounds like she and her husband have no common sense. I don't suffer fools gladly.
she can hardly be ''exhausted'' when she's not cooked or cleaned. This is indicative of so many young parents these days...the child is screaming probably because there's no routine, and he'll be getting fed high sugar I have no doubt.
a good talking to?..well we've all done it, and raised our children well in a clean home.... no excuse for not doing it, unless she's lazy or suffering from PN depression...
remember many of us worked outside the home as well while raising our children, and keeping a nice home. A young woman not working, not cooking , and not cleaning...needs a good talking to...
Can confirm that "being the center of attention" is the way many kids who have not been in PreK or daycare, and do not have young siblings, start off in Kindergarten. Center of the universe. Some of them really do expect the teacher to drop everything, no matter what is going on, and focus on them, just like mom would. It's not their fault. That's what they know.It is a shame for a parent to focus on a child this much, because once the child goes to school, he will find out that he is Not the center of attention and might act up in school because of that.
But it sounds like there is more to this situation.....maybe the mother is not getting enough attention and support from her husband.
I learned that often we observe something, that we feel should be resolved, but often it is best not to attempt to intervene.
Or she might never have learned anything about cooking and food and nutrition. Some people are clueless on that.She hasn't made the child the centre of her life..if she's feeding him processed foods, and take-aways and putting his health in jeopardy even more with filth around him... could she be suffering for Post natal depression?
Or maybe she just doesn't know any better. Start watching the grocery carts of others to see what kind of food they buy and there are all kinds, all ages, all types, who are buying the things that make us the unhealthiest. Do you remember when Jamie Oliver was working with schools to try and get kids eating better? He discovered that their standard fare was mostly white or brown stuff. Meaning no or very little veggies and fruit and mostly fried or deep fried!She hasn't made the child the centre of her life..if she's feeding him processed foods, and take-aways and putting his health in jeopardy even more with filth around him... could she be suffering for Post natal depression?
Or she could be suffering from any one of a number of things. Like maybe ADHD. People like that just can't get organized or if someone organizes them, they are unable to stay organized. My son in law is like that. For the sake of peace in the home, my daughter has given up on trying to organize him.well we've all done it, and raised our children well in a clean home.... no excuse for not doing it, unless she's lazy or suffering from PN depression...
remember many of us worked outside the home as well while raising our children, and keeping a nice home. A young woman not working, not cooking , and not cleaning...needs a good talking to...
they know enough to be able to google.. lets' face it....Or maybe she just doesn't know any better. Start watching the grocery carts of others to see what kind of food they buy and there are all kinds, all ages, all types, who are buying the things that make us the unhealthiest. Do you remember when Jamie Oliver was working with schools to try and get kids eating better? He discovered that their standard fare was mostly white or brown stuff. Meaning no or very little veggies and fruit and mostly fried or deep fried!