grahamg
Old codger
- Location
- South of Manchester, UK
A very good friend of mine many years ago was questioned by her doctor I think it was, (maybe it was the local vicar/minister/priest?), about whether or not as humans we are alone, my friend asserting we are, and we all know we leave this world alone dont we, (i.e. no one will be able to take your place or go with you! ).
Its hard for me to say who I believe is my family, or at least this has become the case during the last five years, concerning my immediate family/siblings, but my extended family are just as good as ever, and I had a great chat with a cousin last night, (well cousin's daughter actually, so second cousin), who became a mum for the first time six months ago.
As you get older you probably consider your friends as part of your family, at least those who you've known almost a lifetime, so we'll/I'll include them in a sense in "my family", or at least those I expect to call or see through business fairly regularly as time goes on, or without interruption I mean.
Then there are our ex.'s, where do they fit in if anywhere, for example where the splitting was amicable? Do they wish to be called once a year or every couple of years, or vice versa, maybe if we are having a rough time of some kind?
Finally our "online friends", well we all know they/we are not real friends, its all pretend isn't it, (or is it? ).
Its hard for me to say who I believe is my family, or at least this has become the case during the last five years, concerning my immediate family/siblings, but my extended family are just as good as ever, and I had a great chat with a cousin last night, (well cousin's daughter actually, so second cousin), who became a mum for the first time six months ago.
As you get older you probably consider your friends as part of your family, at least those who you've known almost a lifetime, so we'll/I'll include them in a sense in "my family", or at least those I expect to call or see through business fairly regularly as time goes on, or without interruption I mean.
Then there are our ex.'s, where do they fit in if anywhere, for example where the splitting was amicable? Do they wish to be called once a year or every couple of years, or vice versa, maybe if we are having a rough time of some kind?
Finally our "online friends", well we all know they/we are not real friends, its all pretend isn't it, (or is it? ).