Autistic spectrum Grandson

Kathleen’s Place

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Wisconsin
Long so please bear with me. Our soon to be 21 year old grandson was born with super severe club feet. (Picture both feet turned completely up to legs). He was in surgery and put in full lower body cast when he was 2 days old and stayed in it until he was a year and a half. It worked, and he can walk, but one can tell he has problems with his feet. At 3 he was diagnosed as being in the autistic spectrum. Years of sheer hell passed by as this wonderful sweet little boy would fly into rages (of course over the years there were things happening, signs, but it all led up to this hellishness.) His parents, mother in particular, were amazing, getting him the help he so desperately needed, and they both pretty much gave up any life of their own lives and money, to focus not only on Seans special needs, but paying equal attention and love to his younger brother who was (hate using this word) “normal.” My husband and I too played a huge part in their lives. Sean, with all of his problems, was smarter than a whip, as some autistic kids are. Flash forward to Sean in 8th grade. Medication is now somewhat controllong his rages. He tells me he decided to go out for, of all things, Cross Country. We would go to his races. Everyone would line up, the gun would go off, and off they went in a flash. Sean was like Yurtel the Turtle, far far far behind in the pack with his poor little feet plugging along. The race would be over and they would be taking down the finishing line banners...and here would come my swwet grandson. I would have tears in my eyes as he finished. He never, not once, gave up that whole season. And Grandma and Grandpa cried at each and every race...tears of proudness.
When he was probably in 5th grade he became interested in the computer game Roblox, and like everything else, he was a whiz at it. He stayed with it, learning as he went. We worried he was spending too much time gaming, but this was his world. A place where he was “normal” and not harassed and bullied for being different.
in high school, they finally found the right medication that worked for Sean. Between that and his therapy sessions where he learned how to cope with his problems, and deal with them himself before they escalated, made life calmer for him and for all of us. The shunning, bullying continued, but in usual Sean fashion, he dealt with it, excelled in school, always made the high honor roll and in his senior year was inducted into the National Honor Society and was given 3 scholarships . In his junior year of high school he created and submitted his own game to Roblox and it was a success. He made quite a bit of money on that game. When he graduated, Roblox accepted him into a summer internship program in San Francisco. We were worried sick. Sean had never spent a night away from home, except at our house in his entire life. But he wanted to take it so badly. So after a lot of financial help from all of us, off to California he, his Mom and Dad, and brother flew. He was set up in the program, an apartment was found close to the campus that he could share with 4 other guys. The rest of the family flew back home and Sean, for the first time in his troubled life, was on his own. And he flourished. Never ever had we seen him so happy. The internship ended and Sean flew home more determined than ever to make the gaming industry his career. He used the money he had saved from his internship and the money he had saved from the game he created, to enroll in a tech school to get an assoc degree in computer science. He will graduate from college this summer. BUT THE BIG NEWS...2 weeks ago he applied for a job with a start up gaming company located in New York. He went thru 5 zoom interviews with various departments, and ladt Friday was offered the job! He works from home, $60k a year, doing what he loves to do. They work in teams and on each team is a design expert, a creative expert, an artistic expert, and a technical expert (who will be Sean). My boy!!!!!😍. So with all of the bad stuff happening in our world, I wanted to tell you a happy, inspiring, good thing. It’s another stepping stone in Sean’s life and I honestly think the world is going to be hearing more about this kid in the future ❤️
 

Long so please bear with me. Our soon to be 21 year old grandson was born with super severe club feet. (Picture both feet turned completely up to legs). He was in surgery and put in full lower body cast when he was 2 days old and stayed in it until he was a year and a half. It worked, and he can walk, but one can tell he has problems with his feet. At 3 he was diagnosed as being in the autistic spectrum. Years of sheer hell passed by as this wonderful sweet little boy would fly into rages (of course over the years there were things happening, signs, but it all led up to this hellishness.) His parents, mother in particular, were amazing, getting him the help he so desperately needed, and they both pretty much gave up any life of their own lives and money, to focus not only on Seans special needs, but paying equal attention and love to his younger brother who was (hate using this word) “normal.” My husband and I too played a huge part in their lives. Sean, with all of his problems, was smarter than a whip, as some autistic kids are. Flash forward to Sean in 8th grade. Medication is now somewhat controllong his rages. He tells me he decided to go out for, of all things, Cross Country. We would go to his races. Everyone would line up, the gun would go off, and off they went in a flash. Sean was like Yurtel the Turtle, far far far behind in the pack with his poor little feet plugging along. The race would be over and they would be taking down the finishing line banners...and here would come my swwet grandson. I would have tears in my eyes as he finished. He never, not once, gave up that whole season. And Grandma and Grandpa cried at each and every race...tears of proudness.
When he was probably in 5th grade he became interested in the computer game Roblox, and like everything else, he was a whiz at it. He stayed with it, learning as he went. We worried he was spending too much time gaming, but this was his world. A place where he was “normal” and not harassed and bullied for being different.
in high school, they finally found the right medication that worked for Sean. Between that and his therapy sessions where he learned how to cope with his problems, and deal with them himself before they escalated, made life calmer for him and for all of us. The shunning, bullying continued, but in usual Sean fashion, he dealt with it, excelled in school, always made the high honor roll and in his senior year was inducted into the National Honor Society and was given 3 scholarships . In his junior year of high school he created and submitted his own game to Roblox and it was a success. He made quite a bit of money on that game. When he graduated, Roblox accepted him into a summer internship program in San Francisco. We were worried sick. Sean had never spent a night away from home, except at our house in his entire life. But he wanted to take it so badly. So after a lot of financial help from all of us, off to California he, his Mom and Dad, and brother flew. He was set up in the program, an apartment was found close to the campus that he could share with 4 other guys. The rest of the family flew back home and Sean, for the first time in his troubled life, was on his own. And he flourished. Never ever had we seen him so happy. The internship ended and Sean flew home more determined than ever to make the gaming industry his career. He used the money he had saved from his internship and the money he had saved from the game he created, to enroll in a tech school to get an assoc degree in computer science. He will graduate from college this summer. BUT THE BIG NEWS...2 weeks ago he applied for a job with a start up gaming company located in New York. He went thru 5 zoom interviews with various departments, and ladt Friday was offered the job! He works from home, $60k a year, doing what he loves to do. They work in teams and on each team is a design expert, a creative expert, an artistic expert, and a technical expert (who will be Sean). My boy!!!!!😍. So with all of the bad stuff happening in our world, I wanted to tell you a happy, inspiring, good thing. It’s another stepping stone in Sean’s life and I honestly think the world is going to be hearing more about this kid in the future ❤️

What a joyful and inspirational story Kathleen's Place. The world needs more like your Sean ❣️
 
That is fantastic! Thanks for sharing.

By the way, if you're writing a long post, you can make it more readable by separating it into paragraphs (using the Enter key) -- otherwise you post what is called a "wall of text".
 

Long so please bear with me. Our soon to be 21 year old grandson was born with super severe club feet. (Picture both feet turned completely up to legs). He was in surgery and put in full lower body cast when he was 2 days old and stayed in it until he was a year and a half. It worked, and he can walk, but one can tell he has problems with his feet. At 3 he was diagnosed as being in the autistic spectrum. Years of sheer hell passed by as this wonderful sweet little boy would fly into rages (of course over the years there were things happening, signs, but it all led up to this hellishness.) His parents, mother in particular, were amazing, getting him the help he so desperately needed, and they both pretty much gave up any life of their own lives and money, to focus not only on Seans special needs, but paying equal attention and love to his younger brother who was (hate using this word) “normal.” My husband and I too played a huge part in their lives. Sean, with all of his problems, was smarter than a whip, as some autistic kids are. Flash forward to Sean in 8th grade. Medication is now somewhat controllong his rages. He tells me he decided to go out for, of all things, Cross Country. We would go to his races. Everyone would line up, the gun would go off, and off they went in a flash. Sean was like Yurtel the Turtle, far far far behind in the pack with his poor little feet plugging along. The race would be over and they would be taking down the finishing line banners...and here would come my swwet grandson. I would have tears in my eyes as he finished. He never, not once, gave up that whole season. And Grandma and Grandpa cried at each and every race...tears of proudness.
When he was probably in 5th grade he became interested in the computer game Roblox, and like everything else, he was a whiz at it. He stayed with it, learning as he went. We worried he was spending too much time gaming, but this was his world. A place where he was “normal” and not harassed and bullied for being different.
in high school, they finally found the right medication that worked for Sean. Between that and his therapy sessions where he learned how to cope with his problems, and deal with them himself before they escalated, made life calmer for him and for all of us. The shunning, bullying continued, but in usual Sean fashion, he dealt with it, excelled in school, always made the high honor roll and in his senior year was inducted into the National Honor Society and was given 3 scholarships . In his junior year of high school he created and submitted his own game to Roblox and it was a success. He made quite a bit of money on that game. When he graduated, Roblox accepted him into a summer internship program in San Francisco. We were worried sick. Sean had never spent a night away from home, except at our house in his entire life. But he wanted to take it so badly. So after a lot of financial help from all of us, off to California he, his Mom and Dad, and brother flew. He was set up in the program, an apartment was found close to the campus that he could share with 4 other guys. The rest of the family flew back home and Sean, for the first time in his troubled life, was on his own. And he flourished. Never ever had we seen him so happy. The internship ended and Sean flew home more determined than ever to make the gaming industry his career. He used the money he had saved from his internship and the money he had saved from the game he created, to enroll in a tech school to get an assoc degree in computer science. He will graduate from college this summer. BUT THE BIG NEWS...2 weeks ago he applied for a job with a start up gaming company located in New York. He went thru 5 zoom interviews with various departments, and ladt Friday was offered the job! He works from home, $60k a year, doing what he loves to do. They work in teams and on each team is a design expert, a creative expert, an artistic expert, and a technical expert (who will be Sean). My boy!!!!!😍. So with all of the bad stuff happening in our world, I wanted to tell you a happy, inspiring, good thing. It’s another stepping stone in Sean’s life and I honestly think the world is going to be hearing more about this kid in the future ❤️
Attitude and determination are everything, and Sean definitely has both.
All the best to him! You certainly have a great deal to be proud of.
 
What a joyful and inspirational story Kathleen's Place. The world needs more like your Sean ❣️
Thank you Dana. Sean still has “moments” and he most likely always will, but it is like a million miles away from where he was 15 years ago. Mental illness is so devastating and heartbreaking...I can’t even put it into words. Sean is one of the luckier ones so far and my grandma’s heart is thankful to God for that. But it continues to break for those still locked in the hell called mental illness. Pray for them, please. Never stop.
 
That is fantastic! Thanks for sharing.

By the way, if you're writing a long post, you can make it more readable by separating it into paragraphs (using the Enter key) -- otherwise you post what is called a "wall of text".
Oh, sorry. I wasn’t aware of that. Darn it....I don’t think I have any more long stories left to tell!!!!!
 
Wow, wow, wow and many more wows, no wonder you are
a proud Gran.

I am glad that his determination has paid off big time, and to
do it working from home, this will be the norm in a lot of cases.
so not only a Technical Expert, but a Pioneer too.

Well done that man!

Mike.
 
Thank you for sharing @Kathleen’s Place. This gives me courage; my younger granddaughter also is autistic. In the last six months, she’s started including me in her world; previously she ignored me. Your story gives me yet more hope for her
Oh there is so much hope, cinnamon. If they are lucky enough to get the meds and therapy and support that they so desperately need. Be in her life as much as she will let you and I will add her to my prayers ❤️
 
This was so great to read! Sean is an astonishing young man! You sure got a lot going in the Grandparent Department! Way to go, Kath!
Thank you Pepper. He IS astonishing and blessed in so many ways. He is/was the biggest, heartache in my life. Knew nothing about mental illness before, but sure learned quickly. When he was going to sweet little Sean to something out of exorcist in a matter of seconds, it was heart wrenching. I used to take his little face in my hands, look him in the eyes and plead with him to come back to us. He would punch holes in walls, run away, had to be hospitalized once. It’s an unbelievable experience unless you have been through it with someone. Unbelievable. We lived on prayer and hope. And thank God for Sean, it worked. If I could nominate his Mom and Dad for a parent of the year award, I would. And Sean put a lot of work into it too. When he would finally come out of these episodes he would cry. He was so sorry, confused, he knew it was happening but couldn’t control it. Saddest thing I have ever witnessed in my entire life. Please pray for these kids, adults, who are locked in that world and can’t get out ❤️
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Thank you so much for posting this, hugs to you, Sean, and the whole family!

P.S. Where do you guys find the big red heart to insert? Do you have to upload from your own files or is there one on here we can access? (I looked in the smiley section but didn't see it.)
 
❤️💔💕💖 It is in the smilies place, click ⬆️ the icon beside the
picture at the top of your reply box and scroll down quite a way.
Just above where I have put that arrow.
Mike.
 
Wow, wow, wow and many more wows, no wonder you are
a proud Gran.

I am glad that his determination has paid off big time, and to
do it working from home, this will be the norm in a lot of cases.
so not only a Technical Expert, but a Pioneer too.

Well done that man!

Mike.
Thank you so much Mike! 💕
 
Oh Kathleen, what an inspiring and heart-spitting story, but what a blessed turnout. You have all suffered so much for this child but I'm almost over-whelmed by what that boy endured himself!

I know there are still "moments" but now he's got pride in himself.

♥️
 
Oh Kathleen, what an inspiring and heart-spitting story, but what a blessed turnout. You have all suffered so much for this child but I'm almost over-whelmed by what that boy endured himself!

I know there are still "moments" but now he's got pride in himself.

♥️
Yes he does and that is the best thing of all! 🥰
 


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