Just retired and bored

Daytona Al said:
Hi Packer,
You guys are giving me hope. Yep I was a Type A, workaholic, who clawed my way up a difficult organization until I hit 70. My goal was always to get a good retirement... which I did. It never occurred to me what I would do afterwards. I hit the treadmill for the first time last night, which helped a bit. But it's a hard road. My doctor prescribed something to "help me relax", but that scares me. Anyway my wife won't let me take it. I suppose that this will all work out, but hearing from you guys is very helpful. Thanks so much. I probably need to go into the site and find another subject that I'm interested in.

Do you know how to enter a new post? I don't see that anywhere. It must be easy, but I can 't find it.
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Do you mean a new topic? I figure you probably do. Click on "forums." On the top, right in orange you'll find "Post thread."
 

Daytona Al said:
Hello everyone. I'm a new married retiree, who came from a busy job to a condo on the beautiful Atlantic. Nobody told me that the change would be so tough... particularly in the age of COVID. I'd like to hear how some of you have dealt with retirement. Any secrets? Does it get easier as it goes on? Any tips would be welcome. Thanks...
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Coming from someone who takes on Dolly Parton's mantra that it's better to wear out than rust out, meaning I'm still in full time work in my mid 70's, I'm hardly qualified to offer advice on keeping occupied in retirement.

But, (there's always a but,) have you got any inclination about the workings of an internal combustion engine? You see, coming from Daytona, as you do, you have the very good fortune of living on the doorstep of the greatest MG gathering in the USA, probably in the world. See here. https://justbritish.com/event/gof-south-2019-daytona-florida/ It's known as: The Gathering of the Faithful.

On my bucket list is to bring my MG to that meeting.
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All you need to do is find yourself a classic MG and you're half way there.
 
@Daytona Al

Welcome to the forum. Lots of good feedback here, as you can see :)

In every yoga class I was in, each person worked as far as their own ability could take them. You never force a position. If it's relaxation you're looking for, yoga could be the answer.

Keeping active .. just walking, cycling, volunteering (which I see you are going to start) may help you get rid of tension.

Do you have any hobbies? Maybe it's time to start doing the things you've always wanted to do.

All the best to you!

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SmoothSeas said:
welcome aboard from rural Kentucky...

this forum is an active and friendly place, with members from all around the globe. post and participate, you're sure to find some kindred spirits amongst us.

as far as dealing with retirement, I allow my curiosity free-reign, and follow it with impunity...
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How to you make a new post? I made this post and no can't find how to make another.
 
Hello Daytona Al,
Yes, I agree retirement can be a tough and boring proposition. Especially in this day of Covid pandemic.
1st thought: do you have any hobbies /skills that can keep your mind/hands busy ?
maybe something like wood-working? Renovation of old classic auto ? Chess on-line ? Reading an exciting novel ? If so, "River God" is a fantastic novel. A real page turner. Years ago, when I 1st picked it up, I couldn't put it down.
Personally, I watch quite a few good films.
I think that for most people, it is a combination of interests. A little of this, a little of that. Exercise, even if it's only walking does help.
Maybe getting a dog ?
 
I remembering when I retired it first felt boaring. But I got over it and now I like to stay in my cave. I have become healthier than before I was retired and that feels good. I dont take seroiusly what doctors tell me and check out what they want to do before I would be willing to do it. Having access to group therapy and psychologist helps me also for I am a disabled veteran. Hanging arround with a lot of old guys in group therapy helps me most of the time, but sometimes hanging arround with a bunch of grumpy old veterans sucks.
 
Lawrence said:
I remembering when I retired it first felt boaring. But I got over it and now I like to stay in my cave. I have become healthier than before I was retired and that feels good. I dont take seroiusly what doctors tell me and check out what they want to do before I would be willing to do it. Having access to group therapy and psychologist helps me also for I am a disabled veteran. Hanging arround with a lot of old guys in group therapy helps me most of the time, but sometimes hanging arround with a bunch of grumpy old veterans sucks.
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You have given me hope. I'd love to simply "like the cave". That is why I worked for this darn retirement. Maybe I'll get used to it soon. I
 
horseless carriage said:
Coming from someone who takes on Dolly Parton's mantra that it's better to wear out than rust out, meaning I'm still in full time work in my mid 70's, I'm hardly qualified to offer advice on keeping occupied in retirement.

But, (there's always a but,) have you got any inclination about the workings of an internal combustion engine? You see, coming from Daytona, as you do, you have the very good fortune of living on the doorstep of the greatest MG gathering in the USA, probably in the world. See here. https://justbritish.com/event/gof-south-2019-daytona-florida/ It's known as: The Gathering of the Faithful.

On my bucket list is to bring my MG to that meeting.
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All you need to do is find yourself a classic MG and you're half way there.
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Maybe I should have taken your lead and stayed at work. Too late now, so I'll get through it somehow. I couldn't make the link work. When is the MG Gathering?
 
Daytona Al said:
Hello everyone. I'm a new married retiree, who came from a busy job to a condo on the beautiful Atlantic. Nobody told me that the change would be so tough... particularly in the age of COVID. I'd like to hear how some of you have dealt with retirement. Any secrets? Does it get easier as it goes on? Any tips would be welcome. Thanks...
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The quirk with being married and retired is that your relationship can either blossom or crash. Knowing how much you should rely upon your spouse to get you through the adjustment of suddenly having "nothing to do" without smothering her/him is a delicate thing. The same is true with friendships. It's probably wise to have contacts with friends (maybe new ones?) and also something solo to keep yourself occupied. Eventually, you will have found the right balance.
 
My wife has smothered me for years. Now I'm suddenly smothering her. I hope to find the right balance soon. Thanks, Verisure.
 

Just retired and bored​


Daytona Al said:
Any secrets? Does it get easier as it goes on? Any tips would be welcome. Thanks...
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Bored???!!!

Hmmmm, tips;

OK, first week, set the alarm
Wake
Listen to the neighbors warming their cars up

Roll over
Fluff the pillow

and

giggle yer ever lovin' self back to sleep

after waking for the 2nd time
scratch yerself
eat whatever you want

and do what ever you wish to to
allllllllll the time

'bored'

sheesh

ps;

If you want to know what 'bored' really is
I suggest trying to read this thread;

Vivid Memories of Childhood and Beyond | Senior Forums

oh, and welcome to geezerhood
 
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Dancing_Queen said:
Great points, Packer! However, I got you beat. I cut the cable in 1962 when I was in high school. :)
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Ha, ha! I'm jealous. You know I never miss that cable. Sometimes when I used to go to a motel while traveling. When my wife was in the washroom I would put the TV on and flip through a few channels. I couldn't believe the crap I was watching and can't believe that there are people who also watch it so I quickly shut if off. I'm not talking about watching the news but I'm talking about some of these shows that show one stupid woman hitting another with her handbag because supposedly the other woman was after her man! It seemed to me that you either had to be crazy or laced heavily with drugs to even come on some of these shows.
 
Daytona Al said:
Hi Packer,
You guys are giving me hope. Yep I was a Type A, workaholic, who clawed my way up a difficult organization until I hit 70. My goal was always to get a good retirement... which I did. It never occurred to me what I would do afterwards. I hit the treadmill for the first time last night, which helped a bit. But it's a hard road. My doctor prescribed something to "help me relax", but that scares me. Anyway my wife won't let me take it. I suppose that this will all work out, but hearing from you guys is very helpful. Thanks so much. I probably need to go into the site and find another subject that I'm interested in.

Do you know how to enter a new post? I don't see that anywhere. It must be easy, but I can 't find it.
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Watch that medicine! Some doctors just love to get you hooked. Be blunt and just ask that doctor if the medicine to relax you is addictive. There are good alternatives to taking drugs to relax. Here are some: herbal tea, nice walk in the fresh air, relaxing music (not rap or heavy metal), good massage by wife or girl friend, relaxing soak in the bathtub or time spent doing some exercise. Some people love to play cards and some "good ole' boys" love to gather each day at some coffee shop to "shoot the breeze." Be careful with drugs. They are the last alternative and should never be the 1st.
 
Daytona Al said:
One day when COVID is over... or better. I'm not sure that it is ever over. My wife is from Colombia and is a great dancer.
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Sounds like a plan! Because you mentioned Columbia, I suppose she's into Latin dancing. At some point the Latin dances here that I absolutely love will open up. I don't sit down once from 7:15-11:00. :) What's great about them is that people don't need partners. Women dance solo; men float in and out of the groups. It's great fun!
 
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