What are your WORST qualities?

Pepper said:
I'm a nervous wreck and I can't calm down. My outer body shakes and so does my insides. I can hide it pretty good some of the time, but not all of the time. I get impatient fast, waiting makes me nuts. I do brave things, but mostly out of fear. Nervous wreck, that's me.
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That's not a "quality" though, it's an emotional reaction to a stressor. It's a survival skill and it keeps you alive. I do brave things also out of blind fear. If people only knew. ;)
 
I am wary of making close connections, that's a problem because I really do want human closeness.(yea, I'm a hot mess).
Am a procrastinator when it comes to some tasks....pretty much OCD at other times
In case you're beginning to suspect- I'm a Gemini , go figure.
I can be controlling, but yet quite content to let others lead.
I can be critical, but yet understanding and compassionate(Gemini!).
Hard-headed one moment...wishy washy the next. šŸ¤”
 
Procrastination. I know I do it but don't seem to care enough to try to correct.
I've been told I am too independent (or stubborn). I have a very bossy relative who drives me crazy making suggestions about my life decisions. I usually just listen then ignore.
I think I am overly patient in some respects. I'll put up with some things (like waiting an hour past the scheduled time for a medical appointment) but I don't get angry or have a fit about it so I guess others see that and take advantage.
 
Tired of having to do someone else's job. They are paid, I'm not, so why should I have to solve their problems.
Example... Ordered 2 tires for my trailblazer. Paid for them. Then told, was told not available, so they cancel the order. Try another store (same chain) paid again. Then again, cancel order. (sigh) Try 3rd store in chain, paid again. This time I receive my tires. Now, I have 2 canceled orders that need to reimburse me. One does... 2 months later, and still they can't get it through their head that these tires have been ordered 3 times, cancelled twice and one set received. What is so *%$#*% hard about that?
I have spoken to several customer service people, emailed them, face booked them, provided screen shots of the canceled orders, and copies of my payments... and yet... still can't clear it up. :mad::mad:

This week, wife goes to doctor. (GP). he say's you need a referral to a specialist. Ok, let's have it. No can do says doctor. You find one and we will make a referral. (????). So, I should do all the leg work and give those results to you? :mad:

We could talk about the wonderful job customer service does at all the retail stores, but, I imagine most of you have already had that honor. :mad:

We don't even want to discuss the issues that are facing me currently while dealing with insurance company over the house fire.
So, am I wrong to expect a person to perform the job they are being paid to do?
 
I worry too much. About personal situations and my son and pet, Rabbit.

I avoid going to social activities. Even if I planned to go, I love it if at the last minute it is cancelled. When I go to whatever I can't wait for it to be time go go home.

I hate doing paperwork. Filling out papers I put it off till almost the last day.
 

What are your WORST qualities?​


Worst qualities?
Worst qualities?
How dare you!!!

I don't have Worst qualities, I only do what everyone does, I regularly pick my nose, fart in lifts/elevators the moment the doors close, and play Moon River by Andy Williams as loud as my ghetto blaster will go, just to entertain the neighbours who all hate the recording.

Worst qualities indeed, HA!! šŸ˜Š
 
I expect too much out of just ordinary folks. Just because I can do something, I assume others can as well. My curiosity over the years has taught me things I might never need to know how to do, but I remember most of it.
On the good side, I encourage others to focus on the positive, think they can do it, then figure out a way to accomplish that.
I am also my own worst critic.
 
This is a hard one for, not that I am perfect but choosing my "WORST qualities" isn't easy, Maybe it my indecision and inability to rank my qualities? Easier for me to comment on other's:
dseag2 said:
I always drive above the speed limit
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I often do, on longer highway trips I set my cruise control for 5 or so mph above the limit. Not a terrible quality though.
MickaC said:
Lack of spontaneity, has to be planned, planned and planned some more.
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I am the opposite, too spontaneous and often lack planning...
Bella said:
I'm a perfectionist. Sometimes I annoy myself
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I've always believed the "Perfect is the enemy of good" thing. Have not always practiced it though.
chic said:
Gosh, I have so few negative qualities.
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Always suspected that of you! LOL
JaniceM said:
Mine is I tolerate too much that I shouldn't.. but from my viewpoint/experiences the reason it's such a bad characteristic is it gives people the wrong ideas.... if someone's a jerk they're a jerk and nothing I can say/do will make a difference.
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I think tolerance is a good thing, it lets you see the good in a less than perfect person, and keeps the peace, usually best. I like your last line, we really can't change others much, particularly jerks. I have always found just avoiding them best.
Pinky said:
I'm very laid-back, so people try to take advantage because of it. They find out the error of their ways soon enough. I am tolerant to a degree - then, watch out!
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Sound like a very good trait to me, nothing negative there. I suspect Pinky is a very kind, and wise lady.
hollydolly said:
everyone tells me I have too much energy... they all tell me to slow down.. but I don't understand why it's a negative.
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It is very much a positive. I like high energy people, my negative is that I can't always keep up. Still love being around high energy, maybe hoping some will rub off on me.
Right Now said:
I am also my own worst critic.
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Aren't we all, or most of us anyway. It's those who aren't that worry me.
 
timoc said:

What are your WORST qualities?​


Worst qualities?
Worst qualities?
How dare you!!!

I don't have Worst qualities, I only do what everyone does, I regularly pick my nose, fart in lifts/elevators the moment the doors close, and play Moon River by Andy Williams as loud as my ghetto blaster will go, just to entertain the neighbours who all hate the recording.

Worst qualities indeed, HA!! šŸ˜Š
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TMI :eek:
 
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