Rose65
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I find it intriguing how people feel almost obliged to give an image of themselves on social media as having a perfect exciting life. I know one friend who constantly gave the impression like that but admitted in private that his marriage was breaking up - despite all the happy travel pics. Another young friend had a baby and posted pictures giving the impression all was wonderful. Her mum told me in private that sadly she is in fact in real trouble, terribly depressed.
It makes me wonder who are they trying to impress? In fact by portraying perfection you risk alienating people . We all struggle. It is actually better to be genuine in posting, say you are struggling, be a bit vulnerable - but never be too revealing of personal life.
Most on FB are not real friends after all. How is it people have hundreds of 'friends' anyway?
I post very little now, I see my life as nobody's business. I message privately to those I trust.
It makes me wonder who are they trying to impress? In fact by portraying perfection you risk alienating people . We all struggle. It is actually better to be genuine in posting, say you are struggling, be a bit vulnerable - but never be too revealing of personal life.
Most on FB are not real friends after all. How is it people have hundreds of 'friends' anyway?
I post very little now, I see my life as nobody's business. I message privately to those I trust.
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