What Is Your Greatest Relationship Deal-breaker?

davey said:
Gary you still livin out in the woods these days or come back into town? - I think we met once way back?
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In town for 2 1/2 years now

Our son is living at the cabin when he's not fishing

Did we meet here, or elsewhere?
I know a few guys from OZ

Send me a PM
let's catch up
 

nah we met many moons ago I think when you were just settling in to your cabin life - glad to here you had a son!! it was on some yanky site we met - we loved your tales and lifestyle
 
I can't even remember my nom de plume in those days or even the name of the forum been on so many - but I think I was ejected for misconduct not becoming a gent? we all enjoyed your 'tales from the woods and the photos too - didn't we discuss concepts of time travel?
 

davey said:
nah we met many moons ago I think when you were just settling in to your cabin life - glad to here you had a son!! it was on some yanky site we met - we loved your tales and lifestyle
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Gotta be SCF
Are you the guy that built a houseboat?
We're quite off topic
I'll send you a PM
 
Magna-Carta said:
I think some similarities with a potential partner are important, but so are the right differences. Who really wants to be with someone exactly or very similar to themselves? How boring might that be? Not because the two individuals are boring, I’m sure for the most part they would not be. But why would someone want to spend a long time with someone who doesn’t ‘challenge’ them, in positive ways that is, based on differences of thought. Would you as an individual ‘develop’ as you go through life with someone who is exactly the same as you are. Where is the variety and excitement in that?

I deal breaker for me would be a woman who seems incapable of taking my brain out for a walk; on a lead or otherwise, I don’t mind. I would want a partner to be able to take my brain out for a walk too.
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Yeah, the key question is really, would anyone be a good match for themselves? I think people need to be able to play off each other's strengths and weaknesses in a relationship.
 
davey said:
the key question is who has read charles dickens Great Expectations - all the answers are beneath the covers!!
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now this creativity I can live with. :)

in fact, let me write this down. I might be able to do something with this. I might have to keep it to myself though, and just keep it somewhere safe for a while then pull it out for special occasions.
 
Medusa said:
Yeah, the key question is really, would anyone be a good match for themselves? I think people need to be able to play off each other's strengths and weaknesses in a relationship.
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I agree with you, Medusa. I wouldn't want to be with a mirror image of myself. I need someone who can bring to the party what I lack, and hopefully, I can provide something that he wants and needs. A symbiotic relationship that benefits us both.
 
he was a writer a philanthropist ; international guest speaker of reknown ; married but had mistresses and many children who weren't all smart one of his sons has a gravestone in some small town in oz actually. I once had his complete collection - bought them one a month for a quid a time!
 
Bella said:
I agree with you, Medusa. I wouldn't want to be with a mirror image of myself. I need someone who can bring to the party what I lack, and hopefully, I can provide something that he wants and needs. A symbiotic relationship that benefits us both.
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isn't that just addictive behaviors though?
 
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