Rose65
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- United Kingdom
As i get older, with arthritis, energy and capability to do regular housework, is harder. I need order and cannot live with disorder.
I used to struggle until I decided to take control, be realistic and simplify things. I have found an amazing change with just moderate planning, including getting up an hour earlier each day and going to bed earlier. That works wonders.
So my main system operates from a 'week to view' A4 diary, in pencil. Each task, once done, the next date is noted ahead so cannot be forgotten. This varies hugely as some tasks can be at monthly, 3 monthly or longer intervals. An example is updating our medicines cabinet every 6 months. I had left it far too long, it was crammed and so many out of date items! It took just half an hour to restore order.
I am realistic not obsessive. I have learned never to expect perfection but just 'good enough'. This is not a showroom. I never overload any one day, but spread jobs out evenly. I aim to do heavier jobs like vacuuming in the morning while I feel strongest, leaving light jobs for the afternoon when I flag.
I put the radio on for longer jobs like cleaning the bathroom but otherwise prefer silence. Minimal distraction means better focus.
So are you feeling in control or overwhelmed with jobs in the house?
I used to struggle until I decided to take control, be realistic and simplify things. I have found an amazing change with just moderate planning, including getting up an hour earlier each day and going to bed earlier. That works wonders.
So my main system operates from a 'week to view' A4 diary, in pencil. Each task, once done, the next date is noted ahead so cannot be forgotten. This varies hugely as some tasks can be at monthly, 3 monthly or longer intervals. An example is updating our medicines cabinet every 6 months. I had left it far too long, it was crammed and so many out of date items! It took just half an hour to restore order.
I am realistic not obsessive. I have learned never to expect perfection but just 'good enough'. This is not a showroom. I never overload any one day, but spread jobs out evenly. I aim to do heavier jobs like vacuuming in the morning while I feel strongest, leaving light jobs for the afternoon when I flag.
I put the radio on for longer jobs like cleaning the bathroom but otherwise prefer silence. Minimal distraction means better focus.
So are you feeling in control or overwhelmed with jobs in the house?