What is tricky for me is some of those children turning their backs on their fathers are just that "children" but woe betide you if you suggest what they're saying should not be taken over the word of a decent loving father, "they must be listened to and taken seriously" the law decrees, (or those administering it, "because that's in their best interests"!).
You are very aware of saying from the bible, and passages from the bible, where in the bible does it say, "the child's interests must come first", (or be paramount over everything else)?
My guess is it does not say such a thing, not least because ultimately there is no God in a system where the child becomes set above all else, (and the power of that phrase I keep quoting about children's interests coming first is said to have almost "mystical power" according to expert observers of family law).
A fellow fathers rights campaigner told me he once told the judge deliberating over his contact with his three boys, "don't play God with my children", and to an extent usurping loving fathers is playing God, deciding who can show love to their children and fulfill the role good/decent dads should be able to decide for themselves how to fulfill!