Gael
Senior Member
- Location
- County Down, N Ireland
As you've gotten older what changes have you noted in your usual sleep patterns if any?
No problem outside of the (circa) 3 AM p*ss call. {It's the age thing} Then I'm right back to sleep. Usually get up from 6 to 7 AM.
Once I hit the sack and within 15-20 minutes Im gone to la-la land, Only time I wake up is to go pee and thats my fault for drinking liquid 2 hours before bedtime.
I often lie awake for an hour or two in the night, sometimes longer these days as I have always had an overactive mind, which never seems to shut down. I usually go to bed between 9 and 10pm and up about 7.30am. I have never been one for late nights not even as a youngster.
The older I get, the worst I sleep. I'm lucky to get 4 hours at one time. Bathroom trips and then I can't get back to sleep so I listen to talk radio. Sometimes I will doze off for an hour or two. I am up by 6:00 most mornings.
I am the same Jillaroo, not a very good sleeper at all.. go to bed maybe 1 am and then read till 2 then off to sleep ,
but one or two hours then wide awake seems to be the normal pattern for me these days then drift on and off till 7 or 8.
sure makes me tired all the time.. I can understand what you mean by your post too..
Usually sleep deep and well unless aches and pains or a weird dream disturbs my slumber.
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I think that I sleep as well now as I did before. I have always been an active, outdoor-sy type of person, and worn out by bedtime usually. Now, it doesn't take nearly as much to wear me out though.
I have a sleep-number bed, and I would not trade that for anything in the world. It is just the most comfortable bed ever !
I also take melatonin about a half hour before I go to bed, and when I lay down, I am asleep almost by the time my head hits that pillow. Now and then I have to get up during the night for the bathroom, or some noise wakes me up; but usually, I sleep straight through until daylight or the dogs wake me up.
I drink one cup of coffee first thing in the morning, and usually just lemon water after that, so unless I have had pop or tea with caffeine in it, there is no problem with that keeping me awake. All it takes is one cup of coffee, or pop in the afternoon, and then I have a terrible time going to sleep that night; so I do my best to avoid anything that might cause that to happen.
Is that you on the bottom?:lol:
I have never had problems with sleep-I always fell asleep the second my head hit the pillow and woke up 8 hours later. Lately,I occasionally take a little longer to fall asleep and wake up a couple of times during the night. Never to pee though-they call me "Iron Bladder". It`ll probably be the death of me. DH is the one with the sleep problem. He has always been a light sleeper-could never have any light coming in under the door or a streetlight outside. He`s not as bad about that anymore but he wakes up during the night and sometimes stays awake for hours. He`s tried every natural sleep remedy out there-some don`t work at all,some work for a while (or at least help a bit) but not for long. So two weeks ago I bought some Essential Oil from a friend who sells them and so far,it has been incredible. I knew it was good stuff because they were using it on my grandson who used to have night terrors and it really worked for him. So every night at bedtime,DH rubs a little of the oil on his wrists and falls right to sleep. He will usually sleep right through but if he does wake up at 3 or 4,he`ll rub some more on and out he goes. It`s pretty cool. The bonus is that,because I can smell the stuff,it`s keeping me asleep all night too. Neither one of us really cares for the smell-it`s not awful but we just don`t care for it much-so I want to get some Lavender Oil to mix with it to see if that will make it smell better. Now the test will be to see if it works long-term.
God bless you! Yours is the ideal of sleep scenarios!:coolthumb:
Yes, lavender oil is known to promote sleep. They have it in everything now, from pillow sprays to body patches. It never worked for me. Passionflower is my herb of choice. But everyone is different.
I always felt needed more sleep hours than other people. I sure have changed sleep pattern since I retired. I use to go to bed around 10:30 - 11:00 having trouble waking up at 7 to go to work as I had this reading habit for up to 3 hours in bed. I usually took a nap after work and slept up to 9 straight hours on weekends.
Now, I don't keep a "going to bed" hour or for waking up in the morning. I sleep alone in my own room (live with family members). I go to bed when I need it, whenever I'm getting sleepy. This can be at mid morning or early night after dinner if I feel like it. Sometimes I am reading or browsing the internet at 3 in the morning, going to bed at 5. I share the afternoon hours with family and I cook dinner for them; sometimes we watch a movie or we engage in conversation but they pretty much allow me to decide if I want to go to my room or not.
This living arrengement is ok for all of us. I'm happy and wouldn't change a thing at this part of my life; love watching grandchildren growing up and showing their respect and love for grandma; I sure show them same thing.
It`s not Lavender Oil that he`s using-I`m just thinking about adding the Lavender Oil to help it smell better to us. The one he is using is RutaVaLa by Young Living Essential Oils I think it`s a blend-I think the Va is Valarian Root oil and the La is Lavender Oil. Have no idea what the Ruta is. Rutabaga Oil? LOL