Gee great stories you all have not sure I`ll post mine now its uninteresting compared to others LOL..
well I retired from work ..
Because it was time? ...... Never was time.. just circumstances changed and mother in law needed caring.. while I was working I looked after her.. each day rush off to work nights in the hospital then back to see she was in bed.. home again .. sleep .. up again go visit Mum in law.. same ol routine each week,for 2 years.. so . in the end it burnt me out I found I couldn`t do it any more and still be expected to do a shift at the hospital which was very demanding.. so had to leave look after Mum full time but after a year doc put her in a home because she had dementia , didn`t know who was who .then she passed away 6 months later... then was too tired to go back to work so left and retired at 50 ..
Didn't want the stress of working? After you turn 50 they don`t want you to return to work because they would rather have younger nurses and assistants then so that was my cue no more work... too old lol..did miss the money but thats not everything..
Had enough money? Not really just a small super as my hubby was leaving his job the next year, even though we owned our
own home he had already in his younger years when he came to Australia.. married a lass from Sydney (not me ) lol ... and they bought 5 acres of land down south from where we are.built a home also then . the marriage fell through and he was left holding the full morgage which he had to pay off for year , in the end got nothing for it .. but he was healthy so when we got married I was already a widow at 25 with my two young children.. married my present husband 3 yrs after my first husband passed away from cancer, he was young at 25 too young to die.. that was the hardest time in my life .. my son was born 3 months later and the dads coming in to see their babies and mine in a grave... was just so hard..
Hubby had 2 boys from his previous marriage as his wife had died too, so we had an instant family.. not a very happy situation I found the going so hard to accept but just kept going on as life had to go on I didn`t want to disappoint any one . least of all his 2 boys who had gone through divorce and a death of a parent when they were under 13 ... but we managed till they grew up meaning I never worked while the children were all at home or young , was my duty to look after them and manage on hubbys wage the best way we could.. this time we had 5 children yours , mine and ours .. one daughter between us..
We moved up to the Central coast and hubby got a job as maintenance man in the local hospital.. and was there till he retired... I started there when my younger daughter was 15 so she was able to look after herself a little then too , time was right to go back to work then.. but only for 10 years then had to leave again ... but now am retired.. we have travelled the world many times during the 10 years since retiring.. sold our home.. bought ourselves a little relocatable home because its easier to manage and also easier to look after.. we have everything we need.. not a lot of income because we spent our super travelling which I wouldn`t have changed for the world..as if I had left it my legs wouldn`t have done any walking .. I have left out lots of things that has happened during our lives but thats irrelevant to this posting it would bore you all as this much probably has already hehe but this is my story ...