Recent content by Seeincolors

Thank you for your sweet and insightful comments! You are a wise man and anyone would be lucky to call you their friend!

Hi Medusa. I’m having a little trouble navigating this site. I’m not the most tech savvy person in the world, so I’m seeing posts I didn’t know were there and out of order, etc. But, oh well… You are exactly right about my being like a widow, but I have to watch my ex go on with his life. He...

Yes, you’re correct. I need to work on making myself my friend, because that’s the only constant! Im a good person, but for some reason I have very little self confidence. I recognize various “reasons” for these feelings in my life, but some days are harder than others to live in spite of...

Thank you for your advice! Everything you say is spot on! Some days are easier than others, of course, but what you say is appreciated!

Believe me, I think about moving all the time. I would have to sell my house for pennies on the dollar and would never be able to have the “comfort” of my kids and grandkids coming back to where they grew up. I think eventually I will try to find a community of people in my situation, be it...

Yes. Women can really be bitches! Seems like no invitations came because this attractive and interesting person just might hit on their husbands, lol.

I live in Kansas

Yes 13 years ago and I’m still in denial and hoping he will see the error of his ways. I’m an awesome person. Talented, intelligent (but not incredibly so, or why can’t I do what my head tells me to do?). I used to be beautiful and that is what attracted me to him. I always new that was a...

13 years ago I, for all practical purposes “died” when my husband of 35 years moved out. I thought he was going through a midlife crisis and would come back when he realized he wasn’t any happier alone. Instead, 6 months later he told me he was ready to make the split permanent and filed for...