After my husband passed last year I found out I had too much time on my hands also. From time to time I also think about the “I SHOULD be’s ” . Then I think I’ve always done what should be done and I’m kinda tired of it. I’m starting to accept and appreciate what this new quiet life is. I have...
Hubby worked the flight deck on 2 aircraft carriers. They had a family day where they took us out and flew jets off of deck. Something I’ll never forget. The noise was really loud.
No I don’t have to do anything for them.
For surviving spouse they give free 45 minutes counseling one time a month for 12 months. It sounds like people usually only use this service once or twice.
Inept, a few weeks ago I went down into a black hole and didn’t want to be here on earth anymore. It’s been 4-1/2 months since hubby passed. . Scared me a lot! I pulled out after a few days. I saw that black hole when hubbys cancer metastasized and wouldn’t go away and had to go on...
It’s been 4-1/2 months since hubby passed. I reached out to the hospice grief counselor telling her I need 6 months before I can start dealing with everything. She kinda chuckled and said it takes a minimum of 5 years if not longer for most people and to give myself grace.
Accept Life as it Comes
Had some tests done yesterday. Nothing unexpected but don’t like to see it actually printed out. During procedure I was telling nurse about loosing my husband and she said her husband has dementia. Everyone has problems and heartbreaks. I still miss hubby like crazy but...
This is my experience also. Height of Covid and hubby sick. They disappeared pretty fast. Hurt for a long time but now I don’t expect anything from anyone.
Thank you for the video. From the background noises it appears this is from a neighborhood and not way out in the wilderness. How common is it to see these lizards?