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    The Life and experiences

    I’ve always wanted to see the Everglades down in southern US. Seeing all the plants and wildlife would be fascinating.
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    Are You Living or Just Existing?

    It’s been a process for me. Slow process. But I’m getting to realize that there’s nothing wrong with me also.
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    Are You Living or Just Existing?

    After my husband passed last year I found out I had too much time on my hands also. From time to time I also think about the “I SHOULD be’s ” . Then I think I’ve always done what should be done and I’m kinda tired of it. I’m starting to accept and appreciate what this new quiet life is. I have...
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    Aircraft carrier flight deck night ops

    Hubby worked the flight deck on 2 aircraft carriers. They had a family day where they took us out and flew jets off of deck. Something I’ll never forget. The noise was really loud.
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    Ever Just Go For A Drive In The Night

    I miss those days.
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    Grief - It Just Never Gets Better

    No I don’t have to do anything for them. For surviving spouse they give free 45 minutes counseling one time a month for 12 months. It sounds like people usually only use this service once or twice.
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    Confronting Shock at an Older Age

    Inept, a few weeks ago I went down into a black hole and didn’t want to be here on earth anymore. It’s been 4-1/2 months since hubby passed. . Scared me a lot! I pulled out after a few days. I saw that black hole when hubbys cancer metastasized and wouldn’t go away and had to go on...
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    Grief - It Just Never Gets Better

    It’s been 4-1/2 months since hubby passed. I reached out to the hospice grief counselor telling her I need 6 months before I can start dealing with everything. She kinda chuckled and said it takes a minimum of 5 years if not longer for most people and to give myself grace.
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    How is your day Today? Chat about your plans and achievements 2025....

    Accept Life as it Comes Had some tests done yesterday. Nothing unexpected but don’t like to see it actually printed out. During procedure I was telling nurse about loosing my husband and she said her husband has dementia. Everyone has problems and heartbreaks. I still miss hubby like crazy but...
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    New Years, hubs would make a nice fire for me.

    I’ve been watching on Netflix crackling fireplaces streamed to tv. Not the real thing but it’s nice listening to the fire and just reading my book.
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    Gentle posts for gentle folks

    I’m happy for you Kaila. Yes home is a good direction. 😊❤️
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    To All of You Suffering Through the holidays

    Thank you Kaila. Ive been thinking about you too. Wondering how each day is going for you. ❤️
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    How many close friends do you have?

    This is my experience also. Height of Covid and hubby sick. They disappeared pretty fast. Hurt for a long time but now I don’t expect anything from anyone.
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    Australian Blue Tongue Lizard

    Thank you for the video. From the background noises it appears this is from a neighborhood and not way out in the wilderness. How common is it to see these lizards?
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    Gentle posts for gentle folks

    Morning Kaila, Wishing you the best this morning. Let us know how it goes. ❤️❤️
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