Welcome from a fellow engineer. I was single after losing my wife of 30 years. I spent my time traveling to places my late wife have no interest in going.
After a trip I wrote,"at this point my life is at a crossroads. I have no idea when my next trip is or where it will be to. Time will tell"
When I came back from my last trip in October, I said I had no idea where I would be going next, but I did not want to be traveling alone again. Well, life is funny that way, because I met a wonderful lady, who is a widow and has sons about the same age as mine. We were married on the Island of Santorini a year and a half after we met.