I recently had been thinking of going to a home. I want a more independent route but can't seem to bring myself to commit. I did see the new story about a place in Detroit. The story showed camera footage of a male nurse choking a older woman into her wheel chair and punched her in the face. I can't help to think that if he felt so comfortable to do that on camera, the whole place must engage in the abuse too. It's such a scary situation and makes it even more harder to to consider a nursing home or facility.