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A very interesting thread Annie, you have confirmed a lot of my ideas about the US and the life there.
Some years ago I did spend a month touring the the West coast mainly California with some Nevada and Arizona. Loved the scenery and the people and could have imagined living there for a short time.
I have never had a desire to live permanently there though, and because as you mention the proliferation of guns, and as I see it the mainly right wing self motivated political system, I wouldn't fit in anyway, I am more a socialist at heart, and guns are a complete anathema to me.
You mention the NHS a lot and I would agree it’s a good basis for a sharing caring society, sadly in this age of greed we have moved into, it is under constant threat, especially from our currently right wing government, which has self interest in privatising it.
Since turning 70 I have become more aware of my complete lack of patriotism/nationalism and don't feel particularly British at all, simply a citizen of the world who happens to be living on this particular island, the flag here is pretty, but that's all I feel a need to be patriotic about. lol
I am now completely at home wherever I am, the 4 plus months I spend in Russia, I feel I am a local, and am accepted in that vein, the same in other countries I visit.
I did consider living abroad some 20 years ago mainly for a better climate, but it never happened for various reasons. I sort of feel I could live anywhere now and do spend some 6 months each year away from the UK, but because of family and being comfortable here see no reason to permanently move away.
You seem to have made a perfect transition to living here Annie, absorbing our way of doing things and fully integrating into the country, I guess that may be unusual and is perhaps because of your very adaptive personality? It does show others how it can be done though, if they are willing to integrate.