grahamg
Old codger
- Location
- South of Manchester, UK
I'm just speculating here about the possible aims a group set up to aid largely excluded parents/grandparents, (and others choosing to support them), might have?
My founding principle would be stated as trying to argue peacefully for decent parents and grandparents interests to be considered alongside the interests of the children they are being excluded from, and sometimes taking precedence over whatever professionals might now consider the child's best interests.
At this early time in my thinking about the possible need for such a group I'm of the opinion its aim should apply to assisting parents and grandparents biologically linked to the children, rather than stepparents.
This distinction is necessary I believe, firstly to try to avoid confusion concerning those the group aims to assist.
Secondly I'm trying deal with the situation where the rivalries arise between those stepparents (who consider themselves to be the "real parent"), and the biological parent. They may be encouraged in the view they are the "real parent" perhaps, by the other biological parent who the stepparent now lives with, and together they try to usurp the former partner from the child's life, (regardless of the biological link, if you see what I mean, becoming confused here already myself !).
Has the idea "got legs" do you think?
Are there any groups already in existence with similar aims?
Any thoughts much appreciated. .
My founding principle would be stated as trying to argue peacefully for decent parents and grandparents interests to be considered alongside the interests of the children they are being excluded from, and sometimes taking precedence over whatever professionals might now consider the child's best interests.
At this early time in my thinking about the possible need for such a group I'm of the opinion its aim should apply to assisting parents and grandparents biologically linked to the children, rather than stepparents.
This distinction is necessary I believe, firstly to try to avoid confusion concerning those the group aims to assist.
Secondly I'm trying deal with the situation where the rivalries arise between those stepparents (who consider themselves to be the "real parent"), and the biological parent. They may be encouraged in the view they are the "real parent" perhaps, by the other biological parent who the stepparent now lives with, and together they try to usurp the former partner from the child's life, (regardless of the biological link, if you see what I mean, becoming confused here already myself !).
Has the idea "got legs" do you think?
Are there any groups already in existence with similar aims?
Any thoughts much appreciated. .
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