I'm not sure where to put this post - none of the current forums really seems to fit this subject - so I hope it's okay if I put it here. Otherwise, please tell me where I should ask it.
I'm a caregiver for my mother who is 88 and still very fit and self-sufficient. She still lives in the house I grew up in. My father passed away long ago but my brother has been boarding with her ever since then so there is someone home much of the time in case she needs something.
My concern is that she has had a few falls - some unexplained - in the last few years and I want to see if some technology will help. My brother is not home all the time and mom sometimes goes out by herself to get something from the mall that is a few blocks away. She walks to the stores and has no walker or scooter or even a cane because she never really seems to need one. I worry that she will fall in the house when my brother is not home or will fall when she is going to the stores. I'd like to find some way for her to summon help so we were thinking about subscribing to a service like Lifeline.
I have the strong impression that Lifeline only works within the house or perhaps on the yard around the house; it appears to be a wireless device using your phone line or the internet to let you push the button to get help. That means it only helps while she's in the house or yard (it's a small single family house). That doesn't help if she is halfway to the mall and falls.
Is anyone aware of a service like Lifeline that works EVERYWHERE, not just in the house? Something based on cell service would probably be ideal.
I realize she could just get a cell phone but one of the things I like about Lifeline - according to their website - they can detect that she has fallen even if she doesn't push the button. I really like the sound of that (although I'm not actually sure that it works well!). The other problem is that I want something that she can use which is SIMPLE to operate. If she's fallen and is in pain and needs immediate help, I'd like her to be able to summon help very quickly and easily. We have snowy winters and I don't want to think about her trying to find the On button for the cell phone, push the slider that prevents pocket-dialing, click on the Phone icon, tap in 911 on the keypad, and then press the call button, then hold the phone in the exact right position so that she can hear and be heard, while wearing mittens or gloves as she lies on the cold ground in pain. There's got to be a better way.
If there is a company that gives you a single button to push and operates on cell frequencies, this would probably be ideal. Otherwise, I'm going to have to try to talk her out of leaving the house when my brother is not home and I know she's not going to like that at all. She's still very independent and very fit for her age.
Does anyone have any suggestions for me on how to handle this?
I'm a caregiver for my mother who is 88 and still very fit and self-sufficient. She still lives in the house I grew up in. My father passed away long ago but my brother has been boarding with her ever since then so there is someone home much of the time in case she needs something.
My concern is that she has had a few falls - some unexplained - in the last few years and I want to see if some technology will help. My brother is not home all the time and mom sometimes goes out by herself to get something from the mall that is a few blocks away. She walks to the stores and has no walker or scooter or even a cane because she never really seems to need one. I worry that she will fall in the house when my brother is not home or will fall when she is going to the stores. I'd like to find some way for her to summon help so we were thinking about subscribing to a service like Lifeline.
I have the strong impression that Lifeline only works within the house or perhaps on the yard around the house; it appears to be a wireless device using your phone line or the internet to let you push the button to get help. That means it only helps while she's in the house or yard (it's a small single family house). That doesn't help if she is halfway to the mall and falls.
Is anyone aware of a service like Lifeline that works EVERYWHERE, not just in the house? Something based on cell service would probably be ideal.
I realize she could just get a cell phone but one of the things I like about Lifeline - according to their website - they can detect that she has fallen even if she doesn't push the button. I really like the sound of that (although I'm not actually sure that it works well!). The other problem is that I want something that she can use which is SIMPLE to operate. If she's fallen and is in pain and needs immediate help, I'd like her to be able to summon help very quickly and easily. We have snowy winters and I don't want to think about her trying to find the On button for the cell phone, push the slider that prevents pocket-dialing, click on the Phone icon, tap in 911 on the keypad, and then press the call button, then hold the phone in the exact right position so that she can hear and be heard, while wearing mittens or gloves as she lies on the cold ground in pain. There's got to be a better way.
If there is a company that gives you a single button to push and operates on cell frequencies, this would probably be ideal. Otherwise, I'm going to have to try to talk her out of leaving the house when my brother is not home and I know she's not going to like that at all. She's still very independent and very fit for her age.
Does anyone have any suggestions for me on how to handle this?