hi myquest, I married a Mainiac (from Maine) and we lived in Maine for 24yrs. it is the most beautiful state I ve ever seen. you got the ocean, mountains , parks etc,, but its very expensive to live there and that is why when we retired , we moved to Tenn. the cost of living is so affordable here...Been here almost 3 yrs now.. its beautiful county here and we love it.. no wicked bad snow storms. but the only down fall is the seafood, not much seafood here in Tn and no ocean views. and I miss that..alot!...... And yes nice beaches but you can't go in the water in Maine ..its too dang cold! lol or if you dare, Portland has a Polar Plunge in the mid winter.. my hubby niece did it a few times.
Portland is a nice town but be prepared in the summer. all the vacationers come to Maine at that time, we called them flatlanders..lol.. you may as well just go on a vacation out of state in the summer. only 3 mo. of summer I may add. I would suggest also Camden or Rockland and Bar Harbor also,, but again all the towns are tourist traps in the summer.. if your able to snow ski or drive a snowmobile, or like ice fishing that would be an advantage for you ,,the winters are long and if you enjoy the outdoors that Is something to do in those Loooong winter months.. oh and get a nice wood stove, good way to save on your heating bill for those long winters too..
Well like you said you have lived in New England so you know all the good and the bad.. im happy for you both that you are able to choose Portland ,Maine.. lots of things to do and lots to see,,
Dh still has relatives in Maine (Biddeford) so we will no doubt be back for short vacations ..and besides ,,there are no Lobsters in Tn..!!! LOL...