I wonder if any one else suffered fertility issues here and how you dealt with it. It was and issue for us. We were told after many tests that we most likely could not have children. Turns out my husband had a low sperm count and motility issues. He did go throught some kind of treatment which I did not understand but a god given blessing gave us our son. My only regret in life is not being able to have another or more children. I never asked my husband to go back to the doctor after our son was born but now I regret it. I just did not want to force to my husband to go through any more pain or struggle.
I think about this often and wonder what goes through the mind of a man when he learns this information. Does it make him feel less than other men? Was it the best decision after our son was born to leave it alone. I feel like if he wanted another child he would have gone back to the doctor. There were times when I was pregnant that I felt he did not believe it was his child. When our son was born there was not doubt, he had all the features that came from his husbands side of the family. Yes, he looked like me too, but my husbands family carried a gene for moles and our son had a large mole on his lower face. It freaked my family out.
They had knocked me out during a emergency Csection so I did not see him when he was born. I did not get to see or hold him until hours later. My sister came in and said don't be alarmed but he has a mark on his face. They brought that baby to me and he was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. I just held him and beamed at my husband, there was no doubt he was a member of his family.
My son no longer has that mole, the doctor recommended it be removed when he was 22 due to shaving issues. I still miss that family mark.
I think about this often and wonder what goes through the mind of a man when he learns this information. Does it make him feel less than other men? Was it the best decision after our son was born to leave it alone. I feel like if he wanted another child he would have gone back to the doctor. There were times when I was pregnant that I felt he did not believe it was his child. When our son was born there was not doubt, he had all the features that came from his husbands side of the family. Yes, he looked like me too, but my husbands family carried a gene for moles and our son had a large mole on his lower face. It freaked my family out.
They had knocked me out during a emergency Csection so I did not see him when he was born. I did not get to see or hold him until hours later. My sister came in and said don't be alarmed but he has a mark on his face. They brought that baby to me and he was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. I just held him and beamed at my husband, there was no doubt he was a member of his family.
My son no longer has that mole, the doctor recommended it be removed when he was 22 due to shaving issues. I still miss that family mark.
). I agree that they should start with the man because it’s easier.
