Paco Dennis
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- Location
- Mid-Missouri
Lately I have been experiencing problems ( mainly involving serious health issues ) with my partner. One of us is sick and the other is treated less than cordial, then when they feel better, the other partner complains how they were mistreated. It is like we think we deserve reparations for the time we were not treated fairly. When we feel like we are not treated fairly we don't like it, and sometimes fight. (Not physically ) It becomes some kind of impasse.
No one is perfect, nor is any relationship. It seems like one has to just let the unsolvable trouble fade away...and it usually does. I guess maybe it is just another bump in the road.
It feels like a no win situation. You say your sorry, but that isn't good enough. If you stand your ground, the other feels misunderstood and hurt. So what we do is go off on our own until the bad weather passes. Is there a shorter way?
No one is perfect, nor is any relationship. It seems like one has to just let the unsolvable trouble fade away...and it usually does. I guess maybe it is just another bump in the road.
It feels like a no win situation. You say your sorry, but that isn't good enough. If you stand your ground, the other feels misunderstood and hurt. So what we do is go off on our own until the bad weather passes. Is there a shorter way?