Becoming a slug in old age

[GoodEnuff]

A few years back, I moved to a rural area, small town, farming community. Since then, my "city clothes" have all disappeared; where would I wear them? Tractor Supply? WalMart? Now my wardrobe consists of jeans, t-shirts, sweat shirts and hoodies (winter).

Yesterday, I went to town and when leaving the grocery store, there was a lady ambling across the parking lot wearing linen ? slacks, a nice blouse, pretty sandals and she was wearing light makeup and her hair was styled. I thought, "That used to be me. Now I just look like an old slug."

Trying to decide if I care or not, lol.

 

[Aunt Bea]

I only care about once every five years or so.

Sadly, I’ve also forgotten how to put together a decent looking outfit on those rare occasions that I feel I should make an effort.

For me, it’s always best to just be my frumpy unapologetic self and muddle through with what I have.

 

[KSav]

Same here; I live in a relatively rural area. And more specifically, after I left formal employment to work/stay at home with the kids I went from dresses and dress shoes to leggings and Keds. I donated all my dressy clothes. I dress up only for church, and I haven't been in awhile.

 

[Oldeagle66]

Seems like I buy clothes just for my medical appointments and buying groceries. I no longer go out (maybe my favorite diner once a year) and I'm cool with that. When I was younger, I would even get get dressed up and stay home on Friday nights.

 

[Fritz]

I have no place to wear anything because I don't go out anymore. I have leggins and t-shirts. Not even a pair of jeans. I no longer care. I would if I had someplace to be and things to do that required looking somewhat decent. But I go to work and back. The doctor and back. Who needs fancy clothes for that?

 

[GoodEnuff]

Seems like I buy clothes just for my medical appointments and buying groceries. I no longer go out (maybe my favorite diner once a year) and I'm cool with that. When I was younger, I would even get get dressed up and stay home on Friday nights.

Those are about the only places I go anymore, too. Dr and groceries. Once a month, post office to drop my bills in the mail. Most often it is the hardware store/lumber yard where my everyday dress blends right in.

 

[hollydolly]

A few years back, I moved to a rural area, small town, farming community. Since then, my "city clothes" have all disappeared; where would I wear them? Tractor Supply? WalMart? Now my wardrobe consists of jeans, t-shirts, sweat shirts and hoodies (winter).

Yesterday, I went to town and when leaving the grocery store, there was a lady ambling across the parking lot wearing linen ? slacks, a nice blouse, pretty sandals and she was wearing light makeup and her hair was styled. I thought, "That used to be me. Now I just look like an old slug."

Trying to decide if I care or not, lol.

I was born and raised in the city. Didn't matter how poor anyone was you had to be seen dressed well, hair done etc....

When I moved to the country, and this farming rural area... I was delighted that I didn't have to spend ages every morning making sure I was wearing the nicest latest outfit, that my hair was all set nicely... and all of that.

I still love that part about living here and aside from a few years hiatus living in other places, I've lived here 50 years...

The funny part about it is, that now when I do go into the city , everyone even the best dressed business people are wearing trainers ( sneakers)..

 

[Pepper]

I accidentally pulled myself together in nice pants and lovely blouse to go to Library Book Club. Usually, I'm in a t shirt. A print blouse and nice fitting pants are usually not my wardrobe.

 

[Dave03]

I'll put on dress slacks and a tie every once in a while, just because I get tired of looking at myself in either work uniforms or sweats and a tee shirt.

I never plan to do it ahead of time. I'll just get out of the shower and spur of the moment decide to dress a little nicer than usual.

 

[jujube]

The few times I have to get dressed up, I'm delighted. Usually, though, getting "dressed up" means a nicer shirt and a pair of newer jeans or shorts.

 

[Jules]

I do tend to wear dresses in the summer and have a selection of jackets for spring and fall when the weather is cooler. Even with the dresses, I can wear practical shoes.

I have fun getting dressed up a bit, even if it’s just for me going to the grocery store. Don’t say I don’t know how to have a good time.

There’s a lady I meet when walking and she‘s pushing her decorated walker. She’s dressed up for herself. Dyes her hair bright red, even if it doesn’t match her red lipstick. She’ll be 100 in a few months.

 

[Medusa]

I still put light make-up on every day and brush and pin my hair. But I'm always in leggings (or form-fitting yoga pants) and t-shirts, anymore. And tennis shoes with fancy laces.

 

[hearlady]

I feel like I looked nice today. I'm having a good hair day and I'm wearing a sage short sleeved linen shirt with some cream colored crop pants. About once a year I get it right.

 

[debodun]

I dress for comfort, not style. If others don't like it - that's THEIR problem.

 

[hearlady]

Well, this woman does everything she can to look young and stylish. She still feels old.
We should invite her here.

 

[hollydolly]

Well, this woman does everything she can to look young and stylish. She still feels old.
We should invite her here.

I don't think she'd like it here she surrounds herself with youngsters....

 

[hollydolly]

I still put light make-up on every day and brush and pin my hair. But I'm always in leggings (or form-fitting yoga pants) and t-shirts, anymore. And tennis shoes with fancy laces.

yes but you've got TWO men to keep happy... most of us only ourselves to please ...much less 2 blokes ...

 

[Medusa]

yes but you've got TWO men to keep happy... most of us only ourselves to please ...much less 2 blokes ...

I am thankful my guys seem to be happy enough with my appearance. So far, so good... lol

 

[feywon]

I saw the title of this and my mind went to being slug in terms of not being very active not in terms how one dresses. Laughed at myself for that but it makes sense because i'm generally more concerned with function than form (as in appearance).

 

[chris001]

I saw the title of this and my mind went to being slug in terms of not being very inactive not in terms how one dresses. Laughed at myself for that but it makes sense because i'm generally more concerned with function than form (as in appearance).

Yeah! You're right...

 

[Imogene]

I appreciate seeing neat and clean in others when I go to the store, and even that gets a pass, if it is only “today’s dirt” and they had to run to the store really quick.

The seniors always seem to make that effort, no matter the discomfort they are in.

I admire those who can walk without something to assist them — they have no idea how lucky they are.

 

[timoc]

Countryside or the city, it makes no matter, I'm always comfortable in my Darth Vega outfit.

 

[horseless carriage]

Is the British Sitcom: "Keeping Up Appearances," screened in your part of the world? If not, look up Hyacinth Bucket on Youtube.
The lady is a wonderful first class snob. She insists that her name is pronounced Bouquet, the letter T being silent.

My wife was once welcomed into our Waitrose supermarket by a lady manager with the remark: "You always look so impeccably groomed." Before she could say anything else, my wife put her hand on the manager's forearm and in her best, faux, Hyacinth Bucket accent, said: "Dahling, one has standards, you know."

 

[Ronni]

Because my work is more physical, and I’m on my feet most of the time, I wear dark joggers and simple v neck tops and comfortable arch support sneakers during the weekdays.

We often go out to dinner and I dress differently for that….tailored pants and a dressy top, makeup, sparkly sandals or shoes. Similar when I go to lunch with friends, attend events or grandkids recitals/performances etc. Weekends when I’m running errands it’s usually jeans or cargo pants, loose linen or cotton tops with sandals in the summer, sweaters and boots or sneakers in the winter.

I wear loose comfortable clothing when I’m home. It’s hot here right now so I’ll typically be in skorts or wide leg pants and a tee, or colorful Joggers and a bright shirt.

Is it weird that my work joggers and at home joggers are clearly delineated by both color and dresser drawer?

 

[Medusa]

Is it weird that my work joggers and at home joggers are clearly delineated by both color and dresser drawer?

Not at all. Nothing wrong with organization.