People count calories?
Have they tried a hobby?
If too much food is a problem then counting it doesn't seem an effective way of restricting it to me.
I've known people who have been on 'calorie counting' diets for 40 years and all that's improved is their maths.
They're still every bit as cuddly as I am, but I can guarantee that they haven't had half the fun.
I work off this little rule of thumb, it's not for weight reduction, it's for reduction of
stressing about weight reduction.
Is your figure vital to your income? Are you a super model?
If not then why worry?
Health risks? If you were really and honestly desperate to reduce weight because there was imminent danger of it killing you then you'd be too damned scared to eat. You wouldn't be diddling about with potions and calorie counters, you'd be off to a qualified nutritionist and would follow their menu like the gospel.
Just relax, stop obsessing over it and it'll even out. I'm fatter than I should be, so what? Other than not mixing certain foods for digestion reasons I never 'diet'. I got to a certain weight and stayed there. It plateaued at what is probably my normal, optimum good times living, genetically pre-ordained level. I was fit enough to work and walk as far as I had to though marathons were out of the question. But I suffered no medical danger signals. So I stopped worrying. I continued to eat the same amount of rubbish food but I didn't get any fatter than that. It didn't change for decades. ... and nor did my calorie counting acquaintances'.
They weren't really worried about their weight, they were just addicted to pretending to be worried about it.
It was a guilt trip.
It became a way of life to them and kept them miserable. And who the hell else cared how fat they were? ... and if anyone did, so what? Health issues aside, are we worried about our shape for ourselves? or for the approval of passing strangers?
Once we figure the reason out weight becomes controllable to the extent that we deem it worth the effort, and the stress factor eases off.
Why exactly we're worried about it is the key to solving it. If genuine health worries aren't enough to keep you on the straight and narrow then odds are it's just a guilt trip. We forgive you, now get thee out and count chocolates!