I had a good childhood, we weren't rich, but my parents saw to it that we had everything we needed and some of the things we wanted. We were never physically or mentally abused at all, and there was love and calm in the home.
Regardless of all that, when I got into my teens, my relationship with my mother and father weakened, I was more concerned with my friends. I did attend any family events or holiday dinners when needed, and acted appropriately. As I got older, especially after moving out of state and getting married, my contact with my parents became less and less. Reduced to an occasional phone call, birthday or Christmas card or gift, etc.
I loved both my parents and respected them, but didn't have a close relationship with them. They both passed on a long time ago, I'll always miss them and love them. RIP.
Did you love and respect your mom and dad, but didn't have a close relationship with them in your adult years? Or do you feel that if you loved them, you would make sure to be with them a lot and have a close relationship?
Regardless of all that, when I got into my teens, my relationship with my mother and father weakened, I was more concerned with my friends. I did attend any family events or holiday dinners when needed, and acted appropriately. As I got older, especially after moving out of state and getting married, my contact with my parents became less and less. Reduced to an occasional phone call, birthday or Christmas card or gift, etc.
I loved both my parents and respected them, but didn't have a close relationship with them. They both passed on a long time ago, I'll always miss them and love them. RIP.
Did you love and respect your mom and dad, but didn't have a close relationship with them in your adult years? Or do you feel that if you loved them, you would make sure to be with them a lot and have a close relationship?