OneEyedDiva
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First let me say that I watched part of an episode of Sister Wives and it turned me off. The husband was getting intimate with one of the wives with the door open. Maybe it was for the cameras but I found it disrespectful. I would not consider plural marriage again because I would not consider marriage again! I don't think I'm cut out for marriage. Maybe because I was raised as an only child and learned how to appreciate being alone. Most times I enjoy being alone. Also I'm fiercely independent...something my second husband thought might be a problem. Sometimes it was. I have my own apartment which I've owned since I was 24. If he stayed here too many days/nights in a row, I actually started having anxiety.I find it fascinating. There was a popular tv show called sister wives and the wives probably had a closer relationship with the sister wives then the husband they shared. It was an interesting show. Not something I could do but if it worked for you , which it clearly did, then why not.
Sometimes I wish I had a sister wife to have fun with . Lol
Would you ever consider that type of relationship again? Did you ever have a regular relationship before this?
If I’m being to inquisitive don’t worry about answering. I’m just curious.
My first love was in high school...we "went steady" for 3 years...then were on and off for awhile. My first marriage which was a traditional one; only lasted a few months. My first husband acted foolishly and wound up ruining his life. I wasn't about to let him ruin mine and our son's. I was alone for several years after that until I met a man at a club one night. We danced and had an instant connection. We wound up being together for 10 years. I was a Christian in those days. I'm starting to feel like I wouldn't mind having a "friend without benefits". LOL