Cruising

Uptosnuff

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This year my husband and I will celebrate our 40th anniversary in November. We are sailing on our first cruise together to the Bahamas. Neither of us has ever been on a cruise before. I have booked the cruise itself, but haven't booked the airfare yet. I'm so excited I can't tell you.

Do you have any advice for us, any tips or tricks of cruising? Where is your favorite cruise destination?

Thanks!
 

Congratulations on your 40th wedding anniversary. That’s really something.
The cruise trip sounds exciting but I can’t offer any advice since I’ve never been on one.
My parents have been on dozens and loved them.
 
The hubby and I went on our first cruise to Alaska a few years back. It was fun and we enjoyed the ports although they were very commercialized and extremely expensive. We got a bit bored with it all. Some of the shows were very good. We decided one was enough for us. We did a road trip across country to get to our cruise destination and decided the road trip was more fun than the cruise. I don't mean to put a damper on taking cruises. Many people can't get enough of them. I hope you have a wonderful anniversary and enjoy every minute of yours.
 

The big joke about cruising is that you should make sure all your pants have elastic waistbands because they give you too much to eat and you gain 10 pounds on the cruise.

It's true......there's a lot to eat on the ship.

#2: Bring half the clothes you had planned to bring and twice the money.

"Formal Night" isn't that formal any more. You'll see the gamut of "formal wear".....tuxedos and ballgowns (not a lot) all the way down to "Sunday Jeans".

Terrible odds in the casino, especially on the slots. They have a captive audience there....it's not like you can walk next door to another casino if you aren't winning where you are.

The mixed drinks are very expensive. There are "drink packages" but you really have to be a drinker to get your value out of them.

There are standardized tips and you can pay them up front. If your cabin steward is extra attentive, slip him a little extra. Those guys and gals work like dogs for little pay.

My best advice is to go to cruisecritic.com, get on the forums and get to reading! If you have any questions, there are expert cruisers just DYING to give advice.

I think cruises are fantastic vacations and a great value. You can do as much or as little as you want to do. Hit every show. Take classes. Sit in the sun on a deck chair and contemplate the inside of your eyelids.

Excursions: The ship-sponsored excursions are more expensive than the ones you arrange for yourselves, but have one major advantage. If the tour is late getting you back to the ship, you'd better hope you're on a ship-sponsored tour. They'll wait for you. Otherwise, you might be waving at the ship as it pulls away.
As a part of that, make sure your watches are set to "SHIP TIME". When the ship is scheduled to pull out at, say, 4:00 p.m., that's 4:00 p.m. SHIP TIME, not the local time if it is different.

Have a great time!!!
 
Thanks for all the info, jujube. I will certainly check out that website. I need all the advice I can get! :)


The big joke about cruising is that you should make sure all your pants have elastic waistbands because they give you too much to eat and you gain 10 pounds on the cruise.

It's true......there's a lot to eat on the ship.

#2: Bring half the clothes you had planned to bring and twice the money.

"Formal Night" isn't that formal any more. You'll see the gamut of "formal wear".....tuxedos and ballgowns (not a lot) all the way down to "Sunday Jeans".

Terrible odds in the casino, especially on the slots. They have a captive audience there....it's not like you can walk next door to another casino if you aren't winning where you are.

The mixed drinks are very expensive. There are "drink packages" but you really have to be a drinker to get your value out of them.

There are standardized tips and you can pay them up front. If your cabin steward is extra attentive, slip him a little extra. Those guys and gals work like dogs for little pay.

My best advice is to go to cruisecritic.com, get on the forums and get to reading! If you have any questions, there are expert cruisers just DYING to give advice.

I think cruises are fantastic vacations and a great value. You can do as much or as little as you want to do. Hit every show. Take classes. Sit in the sun on a deck chair and contemplate the inside of your eyelids.

Excursions: The ship-sponsored excursions are more expensive than the ones you arrange for yourselves, but have one major advantage. If the tour is late getting you back to the ship, you'd better hope you're on a ship-sponsored tour. They'll wait for you. Otherwise, you might be waving at the ship as it pulls away.
As a part of that, make sure your watches are set to "SHIP TIME". When the ship is scheduled to pull out at, say, 4:00 p.m., that's 4:00 p.m. SHIP TIME, not the local time if it is different.

Have a great time!!!
 
I did a mini cruise to the Bahamas several years ago, it
was just the right length of time, unless you are a gambler,
then there is not really much else to do on a cruise.

Nassau is a lovely place, I stayed in the old town and walked
around there, lots of people from the cruise took coaches to
to a modern place, that has apartments where movie stars
live, Sean Connery for one.

Enjoy your trip, it is very nice if it doesn't rain during the day.

Bon Voyage.

Mike.
 
A pleasant aspect of Caribbean cruising is going to a different port every day. Some will have a British heritage, others French, Dutch or Spanish. The western Caribbean touches Mexico, Central America and Panama. The cruises we enjoyed most were on smaller ships 2000 passengers or less. You can learn a lot on http://cruisecritic.com
 
I was never interested in being trapped in the middle of an ocean with thousands of people, viruses and a few shows. Gambling doesn't interest me. I'd rather fly to the places themselves and enjoy all my dinners ,shows, swimming pools and culture right there, in country.

Some ports are getting upset with these behemoths crowding their facilities and polluting.

JMO but if you go. I wish you a fun and healthy voyage!
 
When you can't decide which meal or desert looks the best.....have the waiter bring one of each! Don't be bashful. Be careful about not getting sun burnt and ruining your trip.
I don't want to sound like a "germaphobe" but do exercise caution. On a recent cruise I watched a gal in front of me don a plastic glove before handling salad tongs. I thought that was a bit over the top. Then, I got sick and quarantined to my room for 24 miserable/horrible hours (I'll spare you the gory details). The next two cruises I was very careful to only use my right hand for my silverware if I had use tongs or anything else used in public. To pick up a roll or anything else I'd use my left hand. Wash hands frequently. Never pass up a chance to use the Purell which is used by the gallons. Never use a railing and touch your eyes or nose. Again, wash your hands frequently.
I'm sure you've seen the news about some of the outbreaks. Two months ago on the BIG ships cut the cruise short because of an outbreak.
 
Exciting!

You are likely going to pass by Cuba at some point. People's reactions on the deck are always interesting. I once heard a kid who must have been around 12, shouting about the flaws of communism with more certainty than any economist/political scientist could have mustered.
 
Have fun on your cruise and congratulations on your anniversary . The closest I have come to a cruise was driving up and down Central Avenue with my friends on a Friday night back in high school :rolleyes:
 
Never enjoyed them. The idea that I don't have the option to leave always carried on my mind. I go offshore fishing a lot but that is only for 12hours.
 
I spent abut 6 months in hospital after another, and I thought a cruise might be a good reward. Also I'm in a wheelchair. But watching an ancient rerun of "Sea Hunt", I got sea sick. I had to change the channel. So I'm wondering about how susceptible I am to seasickness. Strangely, I spent 4 years in the US Navy, but I never step foot on a ship. What about seasickness? How are cruises for the handicapped? On board should be OK, but what about in port?
 
I was never interested in being trapped in the middle of an ocean with thousands of people, viruses and a few shows. Gambling doesn't interest me. I'd rather fly to the places themselves and enjoy all my dinners ,shows, swimming pools and culture right there, in country.

I feel exactly as you do, although I wouldn't mind a river cruise. You're always in sight of land and not in the middle of a big ocean with hurricanes and tsunamis a possibility. And, I haven't heard about nonavirus in river cruises.
 
I spent abut 6 months in hospital after another, and I thought a cruise might be a good reward. Also I'm in a wheelchair. But watching an ancient rerun of "Sea Hunt", I got sea sick. I had to change the channel. So I'm wondering about how susceptible I am to seasickness. Strangely, I spent 4 years in the US Navy, but I never step foot on a ship. What about seasickness? How are cruises for the handicapped? On board should be OK, but what about in port?

I've seen a lot of people in wheelchairs on cruises. There are "handicap accessible" cabins on every ship but their numbers are limited.

Ships have elevators to get you to every deck but they tend to be crowded. A person in a wheelchair has to be somewhat aggressive to get on the elevators as people will step in front of you to get on. Also, you can seldom walk the entire length of the ship on one deck, so getting around involves traveling a way, then taking stairs or an elevator to a lower or high deck, walking a while more and then taking an elevator or stairs back up to the original deck. There are also quite often "lips" at the bottom of doors (to keep water out) and sometimes it's difficult to get a wheelchair over without help.

Seasickness? Just depends on the weather and your inner ear. The bigger the ship, the less movement. Some people have no trouble in the worst of seas; others are sicker than dogs the minute the ship leaves the dock. There is medicine for that; some can take it, some can't.

Ports: If the stop is a docked stop, it's just a matter of riding the elevator down to the embarkation deck and rolling off onto the pier. There are tours that advertise "handicapped accessible". Quite often, they're not really easily accessible. Port days are nice to stay on the ship; not much going on, but much quieter and less crowded. There's still lots of food and probably movies being shown. If it's a "tendering" port, it could be a problem getting a wheelchair down a gangplank onto a small tender, especially in high seas. The cruiselines shy away from opening themselves to liability by handling wheelchair-bound passengers in that case.

There are plenty of places to charge electric scooters and wheelchairs. In some accessible cabins, it's possible to keep scooters in the room. In others, they have to be kept in the hallway.

It just comes down to how much you want to accomplish on a cruise. If you would be greatly disappointed not to be able to do a lot of active shore excursions, then a cruise probably wouldn't be your best choice. But if you want to sit on deck with a drink in hand and admire the water and the passing islands, if you enjoy eating and meeting your fellow passengers, if you like to see shows and do a little gambling, if you enjoy sitting at a piano bar listing to music, then cruising would be your cup of tea.

Cruising can cost you as little as $100 a day. Where else can you get a room that's meticulously maintained, eat 12 times a day - LOL, see magic shows, stage shows, comedians, and have the world come to you for that little?
 
Thanks. I have friends, who booked a post wedding cruise. They sailed out into the Caribbean along with Hurricane Hugo. While they weren't in the storm, the wind and high seas confined them to their cabin. The anti- sea sickness meds didn't work, as there was vomit all over the elevators and corridors. So, I was really freaked out with getting seasick from "Sea Hunt". Good grief!! I don't expect to be able to partake of everything on a cruise, but I don't want to stare at four walls either. I'm finding out "handicapped accessible" is a meaningless term. One riverboat handicapped suite had a "personal stairway" to get to it.
I appreciate the info.
 
Thanks. I have friends, who booked a post wedding cruise. They sailed out into the Caribbean along with Hurricane Hugo. While they weren't in the storm, the wind and high seas confined them to their cabin. The anti- sea sickness meds didn't work, as there was vomit all over the elevators and corridors. So, I was really freaked out with getting seasick from "Sea Hunt". Good grief!! I don't expect to be able to partake of everything on a cruise, but I don't want to stare at four walls either. I'm finding out "handicapped accessible" is a meaningless term. One riverboat handicapped suite had a "personal stairway" to get to it.
I appreciate the info.

Would you consider a river cruise? Wish I had the money for the one cruising the Danube in Europe or the Mississippi in the US or even the one that hugs the coast going to Alaska. You can see land all the time and there's a lot less people to crowd you, might even be more wheelchair friendly.
 
One of the most fun things to do on a cruise is "people watch".

There's the "fashion show"......everything from people turned out exquisitely in tux and ballgown for formal night to Bubba in his wifebeater and ragged blue jean shorts, also on formal night.

There's the requisite sweet elderly couple who always dress in matching outfits, head to toe. There's the "slut night at the dance club" ladies who look like they're auditioning for space on a prime corner in the red-light district. Everyone's waiting for a wardrobe malfunction. There's the dapper gentleman who looks like he just stepped out of the pages of GQ.

On my last cruise, an elderly lady showed up at the pool in a different beautiful bathing suit every day, with matching coverup, hatted and sandaled to a fare-thee-well. The problem was that she also wore panty hose with the swimsuit, and not the nude-to-the-waist kind. Nope, these had the dark tops and toes in them. It looked very weird, but bless her! she was so enjoying herself you had to smile.

When my granddaughter was little, we took her on a short 3-day cruise, one of those informal ones that some people refer to as "booze cruises". For "formal night", my late husband wore a blazer and tie, I had on a nice black knee-length dress with heels and my granddaughter was in a dressy dress. We were probably in the upper 10% on the dress-up scale, with most people wearing what they wore to the dining room the rest of the time. Our table mates were a couple from Kansas (Iowa? I can't remember) with their daughter, on their first cruise. They showed up at formal night with the husband in tails, with a top hat and a cane. The wife and daughter had on matching gigantic hoop-skirted ballgowns that would have rivalled anything at a beauty pageant or an evening soiree at Tara, poofed to a T, resplendent in tiaras and glittery jewelry. I can't even imagine how they packed those togs. Once again, bless 'em, they were having a great time, but everybody was gawking at them, probably wondering if they were part of the entertainment.

Yep, I long to take one of those Danube or Eastern Europe river cruises but dang! they're expensive. Maybe one of these days.

There are also lovely cruises up the east coast, some up into Canada. But they're pretty pricey, too. The price problem comes from the fact that they are "American-flagged" ships as opposed to the rest of them which are registered in foreign countries. The American-flagged ships have to adhere to minimum wage and work hour requirements, OSHA regulations, etc., so naturally they're going to have higher expenses and higher prices.
 
Thank you everyone for your replies. I'm not sure if I'm cut out for cruising, I get motion sick in cars, but you only go around once in life, right? I plan on going to my doctor to get a patch for seasickness. Besides, this gives me something to look forward to. :eek:nthego:
 
Thank you everyone for your replies. I'm not sure if I'm cut out for cruising, I get motion sick in cars, but you only go around once in life, right? I plan on going to my doctor to get a patch for seasickness. Besides, this gives me something to look forward to. :eek:nthego:


My daughter has motion sickness and so does my sister and a niece. We all went on a family wedding cruise a few years ago and all those I mentioned took an OTC med....think it was called Bonine.

It worked for them.
 
Jujube, I loved reading your post about the river cruise. A European river cruise would be more my style. I've seen bits of it on PBS (they sponsor) and it looks sweet.

I just loved reading about your midwestern couple on formal night- he in top hat and tails, and they in ball gowns with hoop skirts. I would have loved to see them!
 
My husband and I went on our only cruise about 14 yrs. ago. It was a 7 day trip out of the Gulf of Mexico from Galveston, Tx. to Progreso Yucatan, Cozumel, Mexico, to Belize and the Mayan Ruins.
It was enjoyable w/ plenty to do on the ship ... shows, bars, gambling, swimming, sunning, shopping, and yes, too much to eat. Didn't bring any formal wear and it was fine. Had evening meals with the same 5 couples every night. And they were mostly seasoned cruisers, so learned a lot from them.
Off the ship, we did three stops and had a close call getting back to the ship on time in Belize. Very important to keep track of time...

Enjoyed the cruise, but I wouldn't want to do it again. All my kids and their spouses and grandkids are going on a big 'family' cruise in December.
I was asked to join in, but am declining this voyage. (Party-Pooper since I became a widow.)
 
Have fun on your cruise and congratulations on your anniversary . The closest I have come to a cruise was driving up and down Central Avenue with my friends on a Friday night back in high school :rolleyes:

Awww Mark ... don't downplay Central Avenue! My old stomping grounds for about 6 years. Beautiful place.. :)
I remember going to the Playboy Club on Central Ave., to apply for an accounting position that they had open, and they started interviewing me for a Bunny job... silly people. (It's been a while :p)
 
Cherish these moments. My honey and were together for 47 years of marriage and I lost her less than 2 months ago. I know she is in heaven and pain free. You need to cling together and love life together. God bless...
 


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