Marie5656
Well-known Member
- Location
- Batavia, NY
I found this article about a military vet who was "missing" for 3 years and then found dead in his apartment Missing vet.
He lived in Texas, his elderly mom in New York. She had called the police in Texas and was told that as he was an adult, and traveled for his work, nothing they could do.
Got me to thinking, for those of us who live alone. Do you have any checks in place, to assure people you are OK? How long do you want people to not hear from you before they check? The guy in the above article had his bills on auto pay from his military pension.
Now with social media, our online presence can be a good indicator of us being OK. But what about elderly folks with no social circle or social media?
My niece and I are in contact every few days, even if just a text or PM on FB. My neighbor and I let each other know if we are going to be away from home for anything longer than a day trip.
I know many of us live alone, most in reasonably good health. Maybe we can share ideas of how to make sure we are not put in a situation where we are never found.
He lived in Texas, his elderly mom in New York. She had called the police in Texas and was told that as he was an adult, and traveled for his work, nothing they could do.
Got me to thinking, for those of us who live alone. Do you have any checks in place, to assure people you are OK? How long do you want people to not hear from you before they check? The guy in the above article had his bills on auto pay from his military pension.
Now with social media, our online presence can be a good indicator of us being OK. But what about elderly folks with no social circle or social media?
My niece and I are in contact every few days, even if just a text or PM on FB. My neighbor and I let each other know if we are going to be away from home for anything longer than a day trip.
I know many of us live alone, most in reasonably good health. Maybe we can share ideas of how to make sure we are not put in a situation where we are never found.