Do you have one that got away in your life?

None important enough to mention but there was a TOTWNMTBW (The One That Was Never Mine To Begin With).

He: Senior, Me: Sophomore. He never knew I existed. It's OK though. He didn't turn out so well.
 

hollydolly said:
Nope, in answer to the OP.....I was always the one who left!!..left a few Broken-hearts behind
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I have to ask if anyone ever had to deal with someone you dated becoming a stalker?
I had one who did not think that I had the right to break it off. She did not get as nasty as some that you read about, but she was a pain for several weeks. For the most part it was phone calls in the middle of the night, but for awhile I thought I might get a brick through the window. My experience was probably nothing compared to what you ladies might have gone through.
 

Pecos said:
I have to ask if anyone ever had to deal with someone you dated becoming a stalker?
I had one who did not think that I had the right to break it off. She did not get as nasty as some that you read about, but she was a pain for several weeks. For the most part it was phone calls in the middle of the night, but for awhile I thought I might get a brick through the window. My experience was probably nothing compared to what you ladies might have gone through.
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I had a stalker for a couple of years, even though I was married and never had anything to do with him. He came onto my land and watched me when I was outside. The phone rang and there was heavy breathing. He never threatened me or confronted me at home.
He was a man who worked at the preschool my son attended. He was always around when I took my son to his classroom or picked him up.
I must have bored him because he eventually went away.
 
Pinky said:
The one I had a crush on, all through high school, came calling after we were out of school. Problem was, I had a boyfriend by then. I sometimes wonder how things would have turned out, had I gone with him to the party he'd invited me to. Perhaps we would have at least had a friendship.
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IME and observation of others, platonic relationship is unlikely if there's a spark in one or both parties.

If I were in such quandary, I'd be tortured by
what IFs.😅 🤭
 
No one really "got away", either I left them or they left me.

The saddest loss was my love who died at suddenly when he was 27 he just had a heart attack died suddenly. I was 25. I still visit his grave as he was the nicest human being I ever knew and I always wonder what if?

My life has been a torment of loss through death and I sort of hesitate to get too close to anyone because of that even now. Though I did settle down once but he died also. :cry:
 

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