Leann
Traveler
My ex-husband and I have been divorced for over a decade. A few months after our divorce, he married the woman with whom he had been having an affair during our marriage. She was 22 years his junior and was an illegal immigrant. A few years ago they moved back to her home country in Central America so she could be closer to her family. I think it was also for financial reasons as he was always terrible handling money and they couldn't afford a comfortable life in America.
I learned today that his wife has cancer. I don't know how aggressive it is but I was forwarded a link from his sister to a "go fund me" page that he set up in the hopes of raising $27,000 for her medical care in Central America. No, I won't be donating. However, I am not happy about her illness, either. My humanity won't allow me to celebrate someone else's misfortune.
Our marriage was so fractured that there wasn't a way to repair it. In a way, she did us a favor. She was the catalyst that made us finally draw our miserable marriage to a conclusion. In a way, I have a silent sense of gratitude towards her.
I wish her well. I understand the road ahead will be difficult. She needs surgery, chemotherapy and radiation and they don't have the funds nor the insurance to pay for it.
I'm not sure why I'm posting this other than this is new to me and I needed to share it with someone.
I learned today that his wife has cancer. I don't know how aggressive it is but I was forwarded a link from his sister to a "go fund me" page that he set up in the hopes of raising $27,000 for her medical care in Central America. No, I won't be donating. However, I am not happy about her illness, either. My humanity won't allow me to celebrate someone else's misfortune.
Our marriage was so fractured that there wasn't a way to repair it. In a way, she did us a favor. She was the catalyst that made us finally draw our miserable marriage to a conclusion. In a way, I have a silent sense of gratitude towards her.
I wish her well. I understand the road ahead will be difficult. She needs surgery, chemotherapy and radiation and they don't have the funds nor the insurance to pay for it.
I'm not sure why I'm posting this other than this is new to me and I needed to share it with someone.