Frank Sinatraās Fatherās Day message
"The other kind of father. Biological. Or āPop,ā as he put it in the column he wrote for Fatherās Day, which appeared in the Chicago Daily News June 21, 1947. And while the Daily News had a healthy circulation, Iām probably the only one who remembers it, because he wrote it at my request ā a guest column to run in place of my column. Mine being directed to high school and college students, and this being the bobbysox era, it was appropriate with a capital A."
"Sinatraās devotion to his children may have played a role in his wanting to write the Fatherās Day column. And his own experience, possible observations of other fathers and children, may have played a part in what he wrote. I know only that an aide told me he wrote it while flying in for the benefit that brought him to town."
āRight now,ā he wrote, āeverybodyās kicking around the subject of Fatherās Day. But thatās nothing new. The subject of Fatherās Day is used to getting kicked around."
āThatās why it seems to me that Fatherās Day ought to mean a lot more to you kids than just going out and buying Pop a sale tie. Believe me, the tie your Fatherās interested in isnāt one he hangs around his neck. Heās more concerned about the tie that exists between you and him."
āHe wants to know, if itās a little frayed around the edges, whose fault it is. So after youāve spent a fast buck and bought Dad 20 good cigars, give him what he really wants on Fatherās Day: a little understanding, and a little evidence of your appreciation that the job of being a father is āā Frank Sinatraās DNA was as much 2/4 time as double helix ā no ad lib chorus."
āIt combines the simpler duties of The Cop on the Beat, The Parish Priest, The Local Banker, Judge, Jury and, above all, Scapegoat for everything that goes wrong in your life."
āPopās always āto blameā for what youāre not allowed to do and for ābutting into your businessā when he sees you swerving into a wrong turn. And when some genius move of your own finally runs you into real trouble, chances are Popās to blame for not having warned you."
āSo this Fatherās Day, sit down and get to know your Old Man. Let him tell you how much he really is yours and that the word āoldā is actually part of becoming a man.ā