Marie5656
Well-known Member
- Location
- Batavia, NY
I have always felt I have been doing well since Rick passed. Have gotten used to being alone (sort of), being social, getting out when I feel the need.
But lately I have found I am starting to neglect things around the house. Not having the motivation to want to keep it clean. I mean, it is not turning into one of those hoarder houses. Just need to push myself to keep up with the day to day housekeeping. I feel a bit guilty about it, and hope it is just a phase.
So this afternoon, I decided to get my butt in gear and start getting the house in good order. I have been in the kitchen cutting down card board boxes for recycling, and organizing stuff there. A friend told me to take it one room at a time. So for today and tomorrow, it is the kitchen.
I have decided to try doing what parents do with kids...using the internet and television as a "reward" system. Do so many hours of housework, and then spend time on computer or with TV. It may sound lame, or juvenile, but I need to do something,
Any other recently widowed having this issue? As a reminder (especially for new members) My husband, Rick, died in April, after being ill for several weeks.
So, if I am here sporaticly, this is why
But lately I have found I am starting to neglect things around the house. Not having the motivation to want to keep it clean. I mean, it is not turning into one of those hoarder houses. Just need to push myself to keep up with the day to day housekeeping. I feel a bit guilty about it, and hope it is just a phase.
So this afternoon, I decided to get my butt in gear and start getting the house in good order. I have been in the kitchen cutting down card board boxes for recycling, and organizing stuff there. A friend told me to take it one room at a time. So for today and tomorrow, it is the kitchen.
I have decided to try doing what parents do with kids...using the internet and television as a "reward" system. Do so many hours of housework, and then spend time on computer or with TV. It may sound lame, or juvenile, but I need to do something,
Any other recently widowed having this issue? As a reminder (especially for new members) My husband, Rick, died in April, after being ill for several weeks.
So, if I am here sporaticly, this is why