I have somewhat lately by social media, especially stuff on FB and a dating site. I am in a few FB groups and I shut off notifications and am unfollowing for awhile so I can get myself back to "normal."
Ruthanne, I've never had the 'pleasure' of fb, twitter or dating sites, but from all I've heard and the little I've seen, there's a lot of negativity...something you, I and all of us can do without.
Please just keep in mind that those people don't know you. When they talk to you, they don't look at your face, hear your voice or feel your emotions. For some people, it's easy to be nasty hiding behind a keyboard. I think most of those people are really messed up themselves, perhaps jealous, angry, frustrated, etc. What better way than to be a 'keyboard' warrior and take it out on other people, get in their digs, hurt feeling. They may feel satisfaction in some sick way in the moment, but I think when they walk away and think about what they've said, they feel even worse about themselves.
I couldn't deal with that, I'd have to take a break and force myself to get out, chat with someone in a park, sit and talk with a neighbor, do anything positive in the real world and connect with real people. It's great here, everyone is caring and nice to communicate with, but social media doesn't seem to be the same.
I was more overwhelmed during my working days, long days, short nights, lots of errands and obligations. When my husband's parents spent their last years living in our home with us, one bedridden, half paralyzed and helpless and the other not much better, it was overwhelming . We were both still working, staggered shifts made it work for us so one of us could be home to care for them. The love makes you keep going, but the stress catches up with you. That was many years ago though, although sometimes it seems like yesterday.
My motto is to avoid negative personalities, they are toxic and affect your mood whether you want it or not. Life is too short for that nonsense. Love yourself and take a break, you deserve it....hugs.