Hello SeaBreeze and thank you for responding. We live in a town called Ira , NY located about 30 miles Northwest of Syracuse. It is every bit a bedroom community. We have lived here almost 20 years and have a grand total of maybe 8 friends. We have no real issue with the weather. Our house is very nice and sits on a very nice lot. We have no family close by and our relationship with my kids, particularly my son, is not close. Son lives an hour away daughter 2 1/2 hours away. Of course New York State is a terrible place for retirees due to the tax situation in particular. Our biggest reason to relocate is actually social life. There is basically no senior activities close to us where we can meet other retired people our age. We would love to move to eastern Tennessee. It is a beautiful area but...... We struggle every day making the decision to leave everything we know behind and starting all over. We both agree there is no guarantee things would be different in another place. We are basically seeking a social life to enjoy..