Ladybj
Live, Laugh and Love
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I have known this male friend for over 30 years. I knew him through my sister - he was her boss. and we became friends. I went with her to different office events. He has been married 3x but now divorced and single. Fast forward, I found out on FB about 4 months ago that he has Stage 4 cancer. Long story short, I reached out to him. He is a smoker and he drinks daily..I think from the time he wakes up until he goes to bed...not judging at all. He look forward to my phone calls. I am still married and I made it clear that I am here just as a friend reaching out. Do you think people at some point give up and continue to do what they feel is best for them? Also, I feel he is depending on me a bit too much to be there if its nothing but a text or phone call. Don't want to send mix messages...but the type of person I am with a big, caring heart - he depends on me for a bit of comfort. I enjoy chatting with him.. he also has a very caring heart. I will definitely miss him when God calls him home.