How do you decide where to retire to?

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Wheretonow

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I've lived in the North, the South, the Midwest and California. Will be retiring in the next two years. This country has so much to offer. How do you decide where to retire? (Not really family left to be near, so whole US is open). Would like a medium small town with culture and nature options. What do you guys suggest?
 

Welcome from Poland, Wheretonow. I can't advise you on American destinations, but I can only suggest that Europe is also a good place for retirement.:)
 
Based on your description I would focus on small college towns in a part of the country with the type of climate that you prefer. College and University towns always have lots of activity, cultural events, etc... Let the kids keep you young!!!

In my case I came back to the area where I grew up.
 

Welcome to the forum! Can't really advise you on US destinations although I lived in 4 states. I retired in Scotland and find it is the best place to grow old.
 
Thanks for replies. Hadn't considered outside the US as I haven't been outside the US.
Yes, was thinking a college time would be good but not sure if I'd feel out of place their due to age difference which would mean habit differences.
 
Thanks for replies. Hadn't considered outside the US as I haven't been outside the US.
Yes, was thinking a college time would be good but not sure if I'd feel out of place their due to age difference which would mean habit differences.

I am in Scotland because I married a Scot. Otherwise, very difficult to move to the UK unless a parent was born here and has citizenship. Many move to places like Costa Rica and Panama. Ever think of that?
 
I once had a hard time making a decision like you. I admit to having a hard time with any decision so I put a map on the floor, picked up the cat, gently put him down with my eyes closed and decided on the location where the cats front paw landed.

This is a true story, I couldn't make this stuff up :)
 
Welcome to our wonderful community, Wheretonow. I have lived and traveled all over the country, and am considering staying put here in Maine for retirement. I'm keeping an open mind and will continue to travel around checking out possibilities. I don't take those Best Places to Retire lists very seriously, and I know it's important not to focus too heavily on a single factor such as weather. I agree with the others here that a college town is a great idea, especially those with OLLI programs (http://www.osherfoundation.org/index.php?olli_list).
 
If I was going to be retired in the US and money was no object I'd probably go to a coastal town in central or northern California.
 
Right now, my plan is to stay right here in New York State because my husband does not want to move. But if ,heaven forbid, I lose my husband I would consider moving to North Carolina or Florida where I do have some family.
 
I've lived in the midwest, northwest, high plains, southeast, and west. DH has lived in the midwest, Pacific northwest, central west coast, and inland west. We both hate humidity and lots of rain. Family location is not an issue. We considered CA, AZ, and NV. Reno has little rain or snow, moderate temperatures, no income tax, a state university, and good (but expensive) healthcare. We're also a 4 hour drive or 30 minute flight from San Francisco.
 
When I began planning my retirement I decided to settle in Bishop, CA. It offered everything I was looking for.

When the time came, though, my sons had settled in Sacramento, so here I am.
 
Welcome from Massachusetts. We're still trying to figure out where to retire. We've talked about the mid-coast of Maine, also down in VA and out in Washington state. All we really know is that we'd like to get into a 55+ community so we have a chance to meet new people.
 
I never felt I had to retire to any destination, other than just the home I've been living in. When I get sleepy, I retire to the bedroom. ;)
 
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Hello and welcome to the forum! Many folks just retire and stay where they're living, some move to warm places or quiet areas, the choice is very personal....whatever will make you happy, lot of nice places in the USA.
 
We are toward the end of that decision making process now. We moved here for work and we know we don't want to stay. So, I started a few years ago with a spreadsheet. We too, have moved around over the years. We know people everywhere and could go anywhere so.... I began to collect information on a chart to compare prices and places and things to do. Consider what kinds of things you want to do in your free time - take classes, volunteer, create art or crafts, walk the beach, hike trails, read, write, etc.?? So, plan to be in an area where you can do those things you love. We also talked about what we would do inside a house. Winter weather will keep us in, at times, so the husband and I will need some space call our own. Stairs will be an issue and I would love a fireplace.

Our sons are spread out but most of our family is on the east coast. (Grandmother will tell you that family grows more important to you as you age) We started our discussion in Florida - too hot and too many bugs. GA/SC still too hot and the bug thing, not to mention the hurricanes. NC - better but still too warm and muggy for us - the northern tip was considered but someone posted that, "unless you have a boat or play golf, there is nothing else to do.." So we moved north. VA - Norfolk area - too crowded with military. MD/DE nothing there for us. NJ/NY oh heck no!, CT/RI - We loved it there but they tax EVERYTHING and we cannot afford to go back. MA is too expensive, NH too rural so we have settled on Maine. There is much to do in Portland and medical issues caused us to focus on the area with access to specialists. Now we hope the right property comes on the market....
 

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