My hubby has never apologized for anything he's said in anger. A few years ago, he was upset about something and we had a rare argument. That's when he said, "You've been the biggest disappointment in my life." Not his drunken ex. Not his son that never calls him and hasn't seen him in 6 years. Nope...me
The one that has taken care of him and given in to every thing he's ever wanted to do...whether I wanted to or not. The one that took care of him at home instead of sending him to a rehab hospital when he had a very serious, life-threatening injury. Not to mention, him spending money like it grows on trees and I never say anything.
Those hurtful words has done irreparable damage to our relationship. I can't forget them and he's never said he was sorry so I'm assuming he meant it.