I met with a therapist yesterday, decided he wasn’t good for me.

Mr. Ed

Be what you is not what you what you ain’t
Location
Central NY
The guy practiced psychodynamic therapy and one the first he told I would have to taking prescribed amphetamine type medication because they inhibit emotions of which he planned to exploit. I told him I was not interested, and said goodbye.

When I got I looked for another therapist closer to home and called one of my wife’s former coworker and she agreed to treat me for ptsd and trauma.
 

The guy practiced psychodynamic therapy and one the first he told I would have to taking prescribed amphetamine type medication because they inhibit emotions of which he planned to exploit. I told him I was not interested, and said goodbye.

When I got I looked for another therapist closer to home and called one of my wife’s former coworker and she agreed to treat me for ptsd and trauma.
He put a picture of you meeting on Facebook.
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The guy practiced psychodynamic therapy and one the first he told I would have to taking prescribed amphetamine type medication because they inhibit emotions of which he planned to exploit. I told him I was not interested, and said goodbye.

When I got I looked for another therapist closer to home and called one of my wife’s former coworker and she agreed to treat me for ptsd and trauma.
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I’ve got no medical training but this is speed he was recommending😳

Mr. Ed, you made a wise choice.
I don’t know you or your background but from reading your posts, you do seem to be depressed and agitated.

If you’ve been raised in a hostile environment since infancy, you could have something called Complex Post Traumatic Stress disorder. It’s a fairly new category in the list of medical disorders , so many doctors don’t yet know about it.

PTSD is viewed as trauma from a single traumatic event. Many veterans deal with this. Complex PTSD stems from many traumatic events that continue throughout your life usually starting from infancy. This type of trauma literally and permanently changes the shape of your brain and how the networks function.

It’s a really good thing that you’ve taken this step to seeking treatment for yourself and critically important that you get the ‘right’ type of help in the area that you need it.

There is an excellent reference manual out called “Complex PSTD - From Surviving to Thriving “ by Pete Walker that I highly suggest you read. I think you will find it very helpful.

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I happen to think most human creativity this world has to offer comes directly from those labelled with mental disorder. The labels can be viewed as somewhat derogatory but there are significant reasons why they are made. Matching you with the right mental health provider is one of them.

If they don’t know what you are dealing with , mentally , emotionally and possibly even physically, they don’t know how to treat you and proper treatment can make the world or difference. You truly made an incredibly courageous move on this.

Didn’t see that was already said.
 
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The guy practiced psychodynamic therapy and one the first he told I would have to taking prescribed amphetamine type medication because they inhibit emotions of which he planned to exploit.
Did you mean exploit or explore? Either way, I have no idea why he would want to inhibit emotions he wants to do "whatever" with. I'm not saying he's a quack or anything. I would just like to know what he's doing. I'm going to look up "psycho dynamic" therapy. I thought I knew what that was. Maybe not.

Edit: No it's pretty much what I thought it was.
 
It can be hard sometimes to find a therapist that's right for you. A therapist I was seeing suggested I start attending church. When I told her I was an atheist, she got a shocked look on her face and took a step back from me. That wasn't the only reason, though, that I quit seeing her; at our first session, I mentioned that I loved to read, especially sociology. She got a big smile on her face and said "Sociology?! That's wonderful!" and jotted that down on her notepad. And it made me feel so good--I almost teared up I felt so good--because it had been so long since I could remember--still can't--anyone thinking anything I've done or like as being even kind of okay let alone wonderful. And I'll give her this: she was good at what she did because I felt good about that for about 24 hours and then I thought to myself, "Oh, grow up! She's paid to say stuff like that. Hearing about Sociology is a refreshing change for her besides what they say therapists usually hear about from female patients, namely body or relationships issues!" So at the next session, I decided to test it and said to her at one point, "One of the things I'm really interested in is Sociology." And she says, "Oh, really? Uh hmm." So I knew that the "wonderful" comment at the first session, in spite of the note I think she made about it, didn't mean it really registered with her. So after the pulling back from my atheist comment, I decided that she wasn't going to be able to help me and we were both wasting our time.

I did a search for therapists in my area; I wanted a female therapist for various reasons and I wanted group therapy for financial reasons. So I contacted all 6 of the female therapists in this area and only 3 ever responded and said they no longer did group therapy; all 3 said that group therapy doesn't work for females.

I've heard that there are online therapists but I've also heard to stay away from that. So it's a challenge to find one.
 
Group therapy doesn't work for females, she said @officerripley? What an interesting comment, I wonder if it is true. Anyway, after decades of therapy I have a really good therapist for the first time ever. She actually helps me. We Zoom. I have never met her in person but have been with her agency for a few years.
 
You absolutely did the right thing by not going back.

Don't even get me started on the first therapist I went to when I was young and a mess. She actually verbally attacked me. I didn't see another one for 25 years. And I only went to her probably under 20 sessions though she was very good. It just wasn't helping me.
 
Group therapy doesn't work for females, she said @officerripley? What an interesting comment, I wonder if it is true. Anyway, after decades of therapy I have a really good therapist for the first time ever. She actually helps me. We Zoom. I have never met her in person but have been with her agency for a few years.
My meetings with my therapist are all over Zoom as well and I find it very useful in that on days that I'm not feeling particularly great, had I been required to physically attend the meeting in person (and all the things that would require before-hand) I would have cancelled.

So I attend therapy much more consistently this way and find it no less helpful than in-person therapy. :)
 
My meetings with my therapist are all over Zoom as well and I find it very useful in that on days that I'm not feeling particularly great, had I been required to physically attend the meeting in person (and all the things that would require before-hand) I would have cancelled.

So I attend therapy much more consistently this way and find it no less helpful than in-person therapy. :)
This is one of the things that modern technology has brought to us that’s wonderful especially for those with issues. Since the pandemic it seems that more people are connecting with the right type of medical care for them regardless of their situation. It’s great for those whom otherwise wouldn’t make the meeting in person for whatever reason.
 
I have never had the need/nor been to a therapist.
This thread has opened my eyes to the fact that so many have issues, emotions, and areas of vulnerability that can be addressed through therapy. When a person needs help, it is available to them. I respect each of you for discussing this.
@Mr. Ed , good luck to you.
 
It can be hard sometimes to find a therapist that's right for you. A therapist I was seeing suggested I start attending church. When I told her I was an atheist, she got a shocked look on her face and took a step back from me. That wasn't the only reason, though, that I quit seeing her; at our first session, I mentioned that I loved to read, especially sociology. She got a big smile on her face and said "Sociology?! That's wonderful!" and jotted that down on her notepad. And it made me feel so good--I almost teared up I felt so good--because it had been so long since I could remember--still can't--anyone thinking anything I've done or like as being even kind of okay let alone wonderful. And I'll give her this: she was good at what she did because I felt good about that for about 24 hours and then I thought to myself, "Oh, grow up! She's paid to say stuff like that. Hearing about Sociology is a refreshing change for her besides what they say therapists usually hear about from female patients, namely body or relationships issues!" So at the next session, I decided to test it and said to her at one point, "One of the things I'm really interested in is Sociology." And she says, "Oh, really? Uh hmm." So I knew that the "wonderful" comment at the first session, in spite of the note I think she made about it, didn't mean it really registered with her. So after the pulling back from my atheist comment, I decided that she wasn't going to be able to help me and we were both wasting our time.

I did a search for therapists in my area; I wanted a female therapist for various reasons and I wanted group therapy for financial reasons. So I contacted all 6 of the female therapists in this area and only 3 ever responded and said they no longer did group therapy; all 3 said that group therapy doesn't work for females.

I've heard that there are online therapists but I've also heard to stay away from that. So it's a challenge to find one.
I went to see a well known , well respected naturopath doctor do get blood work and other tests done who actually got explosively angry at me for not being interested in the Scientology book he wanted me to read.
I mean he was so mad, his face was beet red with protruding neck veins popping out everywhere. It was scary. 😱
 
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I went to see a well known , well respected naturopath doctor do get blood and other tests done who actually got explosively angry at me for not being interested in the Scientology book he wanted me to read.
I mean he was so mad, his face was beet red with protruding neck veins popping out everywhere. It was scary. 😱
Good Grief! That would set off a red flag for sure.
 
I was in therapy on and off for a few years. I went through a few before settling on a lady I felt I interacted well with and we met for several years...even video chatting on a secure server during the pandemic. Last year I made the decision that it was no longer needed for me. We spent a couple of sessions winding down....and in my last visit she reminded me that she would always be available to me in the future if I felt I needed some visits, She was nice.
in 2019 when Rick died, I phoned to inform her. She actually called me back, and talked with me over the phone for over an hour...as a freebie
 
Many therapists & counselors are real people, much like doctors, lawyers and accountants. Sometimes you hit it off with the first one you try, sometimes you need to continue searching.
Where therapists are concerned, I would go so far as to say that it is unusual to have a good, or the right connection on the first try. It's a process.
 
I was probably one of the few that connected on my first try. This was at a University Counseling Center where as a student, I had free access to therapy, something I had always been interested in, but never thought I would actually do. Oddly, I had requested a different counselor when I signed up, and I got this other lady, who called me after our first session and said she had found out I signed up for another counselor, and she would make the correction for me if I wanted. I said, "No you are fine. I can stay with you." Partly because I didn't want to offend and partly because I did feel very comfortable with her. I talked to her for a year and a half, and the experience opened my eyes with surprises I never expected. After that, I tried dabbling in therapy again with 5 different counselors several years apart, but never connected as solidly as I did with that first one, and didn't learn much about myself either, but then I didn't stick with any one of them for more than three or four sessions.

I decided maybe I just didn't need it anymore, but then I didn't think I needed it with the first counselor either. I'm of the opinion that each of us, no matter how well we have our $hit together, can benefit from either therapy or serious introspection. In fact overall what was happening when I had all those wonderful experiences in that first year and a half, was that I was learning how to do it, so maybe you don't always need therapy, but you can always learn more about who you really are, if that's important to you.
 
I'm of the opinion that each of us, no matter how well we have our $hit together, can benefit from either therapy or serious introspection. In fact overall what was happening when I had all those wonderful experiences in that first year and a half, was learning how to do it, so maybe you don't always need it, but you can always learn more about who you really are, if that's important to you.
Couldn't agree more. ♥ Well said.
 
I went to see a well known , well respected naturopath doctor do get blood work and other tests done who actually got explosively angry at me for not being interested in the Scientology book he wanted me to read.
I mean he was so mad, his face was beet red with protruding neck veins popping out everywhere. It was scary. 😱
That's completely nuts. Something wrong with that individual. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
 


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