asp3
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- Silicon Valley, CA
Maybe since he seems to just be focusing on himself you can start just focusing on yourself. I understand that a lot of what you've done in the past isn't available now but hopefully you can find some other things to do.
It kind of reminds me of what was taught in Al-Anon, you can't change the other person you can only change yourself. However sometimes in changing yourself it triggers changes the other person or starts to open a dialogue that leads to change or a better situation.
It kind of reminds me of what was taught in Al-Anon, you can't change the other person you can only change yourself. However sometimes in changing yourself it triggers changes the other person or starts to open a dialogue that leads to change or a better situation.