If You Could Sit And Chat... Who Would It Be?

Meanderer

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My Grandpap, who died when I was 4, and have no memory of. :)
 

That is a hard one to decide. Probably my oldest brother. He was many years older than me. I was one of the younger children in a big family. He was my hero and protector. After I was grown, we were always close. We had many long chats, just him and me talking about anything under the sun. I miss him terribly.
 
Going along the same thoughts here, my older brother who passed on when he was only 30. Didn't spend nearly enough time with him before he left us. :sentimental:
 

Easy. My mom for sure. She left suddenly-died from a heart attack while getting ready to go to work on a Monday morning. Biggest shock any of us five kids have ever had in our lives. Yes,she was 70,but her mom,at 90,was still here and doing fine,living on her own still. Mom was,to our knowledge,perfectly healthy and very,very active. Worked full time and always worked mega-overtime. Loved to dance and went out dancing most every night. We always said she was living her teenage years that she had missed out on by getting married at 16 :) So yeah,my mom. So much that was left unsaid....
 
my dad, we lost him when I was just 10 so I didn't ever get to have meaningful conversations with him, there's much I'd like to ask him and really get to know him as an adult, questions I'd like answered and for him to tell me he loved me
 
Even if it were possible, I am not sure that I wouldn't want to chat to any of my relatives who have died, even my favourite Grandmother of whom I was fond. Once a person is dead they have ceased to be as far as I am concerned.
 
Well for me this is easy, my late husband, most every day I wish I could talk to him about some situation with a relative or just daily routine things...those of you that still have your spouse should cherish your together time..
 
Capt Lightning said:
Like Just me, I have no desire to chat to dead relatives. There are a lot of people I think would be more interesting to chat to - famous scientists like Faraday, Brunel, Newton etc..
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Captain, if you knew my brother, you would think he was more interesting to chat with than those people. :D
 
I kind of agree that a live chat would be more fun, so I will pick Queen Elizabeth. I am amazed that she has never given an interview, and the glimpses of her interacting in her "home" setting on special documentaries, were tantalizing. She has always reminded me of my Aunt in appearance, and in her strength of character..... Also, I just walked by the Abraham Lincoln Line and it was WAY too long! :)
 
Yes, Jackie me too........unless you have been torn from your loved one, no-one can understand the yearning to have them back.
 
I only want to say how sorry I am for those of you that have lost loved ones before their time. It is devastating to lose a child or even a parent that you believe to be healthy and still full of life. I have always been told that I am too compassionate, but that's OK. I do feel other's pain because I lost my Dad in a fire and his age was 56. We were best friends, so I can relate to their emotional pain.
 
I would like to discuss what my two boys, (gone now 21 for years and almost six months now), think's about how we should try to continue on now that both are gone. Hopefully they would have gain more wisdom, and could guide us onto another pathway now that they are not part of the plan we had anymore. :dunno:
 

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