Is it better to hold the upper hand or to just hold someone else's hand?

[Chris P Bacon]

It's nice to be important but it's more important to be nice. Or is it? What do you think? Share your thoughts here please.

 

[Aunt Marg]

Both for me.

For those who think they can walk all over me, I seek the upper-hand. Not one where I am better or always right, just an upper-hand that reminds people that I won't be their personal door matt.

As for going through life happy and content, I like the idea of holding someone else's hand. It affords a sense of warmth, comfort, and security.

 

[officerripley]

Don't know; never been either one.

 

[Ladybj]

For me, better to hold someone else's hand. What we give in life, we get back.

 

[Murrmurr]

I'm versatile.