Is the desire to view the naked body wrong

Mr. Ed said:
I disagree

I agree, getting burned by lousy parents did a number on me that I cannot let go of. They are dead but I'm still rebelling by criticizing them and what they believed in.
It's like revenge in a way, for the pain and deception I was fooled by.
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Yes, l get it. And in a way they're still doing it to you. 🧐
 
I think there are 3 categories of response to viewing nudity. One is intellectual, another emotional, and the third physical. Each has its place but they can interact or overlap. And they may all vary depending on your connection to the viewed individual and your state of receptivity at the time.

So it can be pretty complicated.
 
I accidentally catch sight of my body when getting in the shower.

I look at the big fat belly that's hidden my crown jewels for decades, the walrus-like jowls under my chin, and not forgetting my very ample backside.... "Oh yes, Timmy", I say to myself, "You've still got the magic that turns the women on." 😊
 
Mr. Ed said:
I am attracted to women, all shapes, sizes nationalities and ethnic backgrounds, I appreciate older women, near my age over young women in their 20’s but women 30 and older have my attention. I am happily married but that does mean I cannot appreciate the human body. I do not agree with pornography but I do appreciate an occasional view of nudity in movies and films if tastefully done. I don’t like sexual or gross acts of violence, however, most R rated movies are exceptable. Nor do I like heavy petting or people having sex, I believe making love is personal and should not exploited in movies or films.

Variations in shapes and sizes captures a singular scope of individual beauty in every woman. There is nothing more beautiful to me than a woman.
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I became comfortable quickly when I began going to the Nude New in San Diego. While I am sexually a private person I could enjoy hanging with more open people on occasion. I had no issues with people enjoying themselves as long as they were discreet.
 
Mr. Ed said:
At the time my dad was the greatest person to me in the whole wide world. later I realized he deliberately ignored his family based on his cowardice and lack of concern. I turned this inward and blamed myself for his insignificance. It hurt me that he didn’t care about anyone except himself. How could someone be so shallow and selfish? People like him should not have children
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There are 'people like him'all over the world. And there have been much worse things done to innocent people. These people are sick, and now that you know he was sick it is your job for yourself, to forgive him. This will allow you to move forward and live free.
My dad was my idol as a kid. As I grew older and learned who he really was, what he did and how he felt no guilt for screwing up sooo many lives, I hated him and myself for being so stupid to believe he was a good man. Now, I have forgiven myself for believing I was stupid and I have forgiven him for being f****d up.


Narcissism, and particularly Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), is a mental health condition characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a need for excessive admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.

Get to work on forgiveness. It is very powerful.
 
dusty said:
There are 'people like him'all over the world. And there have been much worse things done to innocent people. These people are sick, and now that you know he was sick it is your job for yourself, to forgive him. This will allow you to move forward and live free.
My dad was my idol as a kid. As I grew older and learned who he really was, what he did and how he felt no guilt for screwing up sooo many lives, I hated him and myself for being so stupid to believe he was a good man. Now, I have forgiven myself for believing I was stupid and I have forgiven him for being f****d up.


Narcissism, and particularly Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), is a mental health condition characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a need for excessive admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.

Get to work on forgiveness. It is very powerful.
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I was also raised by a very narcissistic father who beat me at least once a week. It took me a lifetime to realize he did it for sexual gratification. Both my parents really messed me up in ways I’m not going to share. I struggle with forgiving him.
 
I don’t that I forgave my father but I am over him and I am a better man for it. I see him as he really was, a weak insignificant man who breezed through life on his good looks and charisma. I am smarter with much more than he ever had. Therefore he has no power over me. I am content and even happy most of the time, life is predominantly great.
 
which ever way you look at it the human body has always been to my mind a wonderfully well designed technical masterpiece - and I have been in a few operating theatres and seen it opened up. How we came about is still being debated between the church and the science pit. They are many animal groups who have higher morals than some humans - take the swans for example?

I cannot help being drawn back to those biblical statements - "...............let us make man/woman in our own image" and " God said I give you free will..." Some animals have this innate behavior pattern of loyalty to each other to the end and so do many humans. You could claim they are all God given gifts to accept or decline?
 
Mr. Ed said:
I am attracted to women, all shapes, sizes nationalities and ethnic backgrounds, I appreciate older women, near my age over young women in their 20’s but women 30 and older have my attention. I am happily married but that does mean I cannot appreciate the human body. I do not agree with pornography but I do appreciate an occasional view of nudity in movies and films if tastefully done. I don’t like sexual or gross acts of violence, however, most R rated movies are exceptable. Nor do I like heavy petting or people having sex, I believe making love is personal and should not exploited in movies or films.

Variations in shapes and sizes captures a singular scope of individual beauty in every woman. There is nothing more beautiful to me than a woman.
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I could admire woman at the beach ( and some men ) without causing any drama. It was nice at nude beach to see the various shapes & forms & personalities.et some very nice partners over the years
 
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