Ina, I am still working somewhat on this. I know that I continue to be a work in progress. I had a very different childhood growing up. I want go into details, but only say I grew-up in a situation that allowed me to be headstrong in the 50s and 60s during racial strife where my parents were very humane and worked to give blacks an equal opportunity. How did that make me headstrong, you ask? Well without going into it too much, my father was a civil rights leader, who hired the first black man to be a deputy (my dad was sheriff in a county that had a black college and educators that could not vote). The governor removed all state radios for his police cars bc of that. I spoke my mind growing up. Let me say, there were other teenagers that were of equal mind, as well, so I was not alone. I enjoy hearing so much for you.