grahamg
Old codger
- Location
- South of Manchester, UK
I listened to BBC radio reports here in the UK of a quite alarming rise in the numbers of children self harming, and its been found to be happening more often in much younger children, and the reports suggested the only solution being considered is offering more money or support via mental health services etc.
Here is the challenge for all those of you who believe our family law should rest upon an assessment of the best interests of the child criteria, or legal principle, thus denying decent parents any legal rights in the UK once they've separated from their partner, "Who do you believe loves those self harming children, or might love them to help raise their esteem more than the decent parents getting excluded every day in the UK by family court decisions"?
I accept many dads in particular are/can be feckless, sometimes even a danger, but that involves the " harm standard" applied in law to exclude any parent, or couple, thought to have been abusing their children, so a different legal standard than the "child's best interests paramount principle" being used to deny decent seperated parents here any legal rights.
"Who loves those children, who do you think might love them, if you're content their parent who might, balancing perhaps the excesses of the residential parent etc., sometimes, who indeed loves them,...., not you I'd suggest, who supports a family law system helping to cut off one parent from the child's life, and maybe deserves their own view of their children's best interests to take precrndence over strangers views!"
Here is the challenge for all those of you who believe our family law should rest upon an assessment of the best interests of the child criteria, or legal principle, thus denying decent parents any legal rights in the UK once they've separated from their partner, "Who do you believe loves those self harming children, or might love them to help raise their esteem more than the decent parents getting excluded every day in the UK by family court decisions"?
I accept many dads in particular are/can be feckless, sometimes even a danger, but that involves the " harm standard" applied in law to exclude any parent, or couple, thought to have been abusing their children, so a different legal standard than the "child's best interests paramount principle" being used to deny decent seperated parents here any legal rights.
"Who loves those children, who do you think might love them, if you're content their parent who might, balancing perhaps the excesses of the residential parent etc., sometimes, who indeed loves them,...., not you I'd suggest, who supports a family law system helping to cut off one parent from the child's life, and maybe deserves their own view of their children's best interests to take precrndence over strangers views!"