Something to think about now re: relationship (s)
- Thread starter Jace
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It is amusing to see how others changed .....
i have seen not only for my self and people i thought were so great ...........but with other friends/ family choices as well
sister had a boyfriend he was a real jerk in high school but was very handsome so his ego was too big
when he grew up he is a very great guy and she moved fro loser to loser and i thought wow too bad you could not hold on to that one...
i have seen not only for my self and people i thought were so great ...........but with other friends/ family choices as well
sister had a boyfriend he was a real jerk in high school but was very handsome so his ego was too big
when he grew up he is a very great guy and she moved fro loser to loser and i thought wow too bad you could not hold on to that one...
jujube
SF VIP
I look back at the guys I thought I loved and wanted to spend eternity with and all I can say is, "GIRL, WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING???"
All except for my first boyfriend, and we're still best friends. We just made better friends than lovers.....
All except for my first boyfriend, and we're still best friends. We just made better friends than lovers.....
Gaer
"Angel whisperer"
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- New Mexico U.S.A.
A wonderful man I was engaged to (back then):
I adored him but now realize a marriage to him
would have been the end of my spiritual growth
My whole life path would have been altered
and not in a good way, so it was a necessary
break up.
I adored him but now realize a marriage to him
would have been the end of my spiritual growth
My whole life path would have been altered
and not in a good way, so it was a necessary
break up.
dseag2
Dallas, TX
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- Dallas, TX
I'll put a different spin on this and say that I was with my girlfriend in high school for 3 years. I had sexual feelings for her but I always knew I was gay. We went our separate ways, but we still keep in touch. It would have been a huge mistake and a big injustice to her if we'd stayed together.
We went to our 20 year reunion together and had a great time. I often send her videos of old songs from our high school days. She is married with 2 grown children and I am with my partner of 30 years, but we have a Zoom call set up to talk in person for the first time in almost 50 years. I will always feel a special connection with her, but marriage was never meant to be.
We went to our 20 year reunion together and had a great time. I often send her videos of old songs from our high school days. She is married with 2 grown children and I am with my partner of 30 years, but we have a Zoom call set up to talk in person for the first time in almost 50 years. I will always feel a special connection with her, but marriage was never meant to be.
Murrmurr
SF VIP
- Location
- Sacramento, California
Debbie.
~whew!~ that was a close one.
~whew!~ that was a close one.
Yeah, 50 year reunions can do thatEver been crazy about someone "back in the day"...
See "them" now.....and can say...."Glad I missed that boat"!
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JonSR77
Senior Member
Ever been crazy about someone "back in the day"...
See "them" now.....and can say...."Glad I missed that boat"!
Not really, but I am pretty sure that I am the boat that a lot of gals were glad they missed!!!
katlupe
SF VIP
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- Norwich, NY
I am friends on fakebook with a few old boyfriends from when I was in school. Some turned out pretty good and some not so. I haven't connected with any that I would want. One guy I was super crazy about was very smart in school and always had a job and so good looking. I still have his high school graduation photo (the big one, his sister stole it for me!). He drank back then and about 2012 or so he died suddenly but I think it was due to drinking or smoking or both. His sister is my friend on fb but she does not talk about him at all. So glad I missed out on him.