Apparently not QS......my Mum is 86 and her youngest is 56 and she said she worries just as much if not more because of the grandkids and great grand kids......looks like Motherhood is for life.
I'm going to have to back off a little now.. give him some space to be independent for the first time in his life... and just hope and pray and keep fingers and toes crossed that the continues to stay sober and go to AA.. It will be a constant worry for me, but he has to make it now.. it's up to him.
You're smart to back off a bit QS, it'll give him a chance to take a deep breath and do some thinking about himself and his future. I think he'll make it and will be strong.