OLD is weird
After about 10 days, this is what I have experienced:
Easy to get likes, got about 50.
Easy to match, probably a dozen.
Matches say they want to meet, but then disappear. Had about four of those. I had set up a place and time with one, and luckily I had checked my phone before I left, because she disappeared from the app. I would have waited a very long time. Ghosting is the norm I suppose.
How hard is it to tell the truth and do what you say you are going to do? Perhaps I live by a different code. When I tried this eight years ago I didn’t have any trouble meeting actual people. Something has definitely changed. Maybe some of these women are doing this for an ego boost? Hard to say.
All I can do is just laugh about it and chalk it up to lesson learned.