I kinda agree with that in many ways ....I thought I had made peace with some things but then found them troubling me again...and on it goes with some things I guess. I'm at a point where I wonder if there is truly any real peace made with things.
Same here. I never forgave my mother for some things she did during her lifetime, and I can't shake off the feeling of betrayal that I felt.I thought I had made peace with some things but then found them troubling me again...and on it goes with some things I guess. I'm at a point where I wonder if there is truly any real peace made with things.
I have had to make peace with the things my parents , particularly my father did to me....because I have no choice. I haven't fogriven..never will and I will never forget but I have had to make peace with it, because they're both gone, and there can never been any mending of those bridges, so not making peace with it affects only me..so I'm continuing to allow them to hurt me.. If you see what I'm trying to saySame here. I never forgave my mother for some things she did during her lifetime, and I can't shake off the feeling of betrayal that I felt.
I do see, and had I known I wouldn't be so flippant as to using piece rather than peace. My apologies to you Holly, I sincerely wish that you find peace in your heart and are able to love and trust others, despite your parents. May peace and happiness always be with you.I have had to make peace with the things my parents , particularly my father did to me....because I have no choice. I haven't fogriven..never will and I will never forget but I have had to make peace with it, because they're both gone, and there can never been any mending of those bridges, so not making eace with it affects ony me..so I'm continuing to allow them to hurt me.. If you see what I'm trying to say
I could give a long list but at the top of it would have to be making peace with my first wife. Hate to admit it, but the ill behavior was on my part, not hers. I was young and stupid and did not treat her well. No physical abuse or anything like that, but it was me who caused our divorce.What about you , what have you made peace about..?
i find you likeable. Not even sure what being a 'people person' means. i know i don't have and strong need to be around or be liked by large numbers of people, yet i'm capable of being civil, kind and compassionate to most i cross paths with.I'm still trying to make peace with the fact that I'm not a likable, "people person" and never will be. (Latest research says it can be learned but must be learned before the age of 8.)
Judging by the dialogue here many of our children appear to have the same reaction to their parents, where did we go wrong?I have two sons like that. One accuses me of giving my sons fetal alcohol syndrome, among other crazy things that never happened. One accuses me of being an opioid addict and of catching me stealing his lithium because I thought it was an opioid. None of this ever happened.
These sons are very much mentally ill (diagnosed for years by professionals). I don't get mad or particularly sad ... I just feel frustrated.
Really good point! I call it taking the least worst option, accepting that it is often necessary is a good thing.I have come to peace with the realization that during our lives we're not always been presented with good choices.
I quit HBO and miss Bill Maher. One reason it is so difficult to get along with people of different opinions is that there are many who profit from, and promote, division. It is no accident that there are so many conspiracy theories on facebook. Chaos is essential for those who wish to undermine democracy.Bill Maher had a brilliant editorial on his show last night. He said he was talking to a cab driver originally from Bosnia, and he said the condition this country is in, and the level of hatred between people based on political beliefs, is exactly what he saw in Bosnia in the early 1990's, before that country became a hellish wasteland. Recent surveys have shown that the majority of Americans, on both sides of the political aisle, would be in favor of having half the country secede.
Maher said he gave the matter some thought and realized the guy was right. We've got to stop hating the "other side," especially over trivial differences of opinion. If America is to survive, we have to remember that there will always be differences of opinion, but we are all basically on the same side. There has to be less hatred and contempt for people we just disagree with. I have made peace with that idea.
True; like the old saying: "Divide and conquer."I quit HBO and miss Bill Maher. One reason it is so difficult to get along with people of different opinions is that there are many who profit from, and promote, division. It is no accident that there are so many conspiracy theories on facebook. Chaos is essential for those who wish to undermine democracy.