Why ? So we can be an active part of our grand kids lives and not be a vacation stopover like our parents were ..they never really were part of any of their grand children’s daily lives once they moved away ..
We had a second home in the poconos in Pennsylvania....we bought to in 2007 to retire to. We thought a cheaper life would be better .
We were wrong.... once we put our retirement hat on things looked very different .
Here in nyc we have a massive mass transit system ..we can go anywhere at anytime..god forbid I couldn’t drive at some point in the poconos ..
Here in nyc we have loads to do daily ... it would take decades of eating out every day to even try all the fabulous places .. we have top medical care , specialists, facility’s here ... I work one day a week in retirement doing something I enjoy ..I would have to work 3 days in pa to earn the same thing we have the best in theater , the arts , museums , etc .... winters were long and hard in pa with little to do as you age .
We ended up selling and realized everything we would want we already have right where we lived
There are so many reasons places like nyc are so desirable