Which age is the most sexiest?

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Well, if you're in a "Senior Forum", ya ain't no spring chicken. Maybe there is such a being as a "sexy 80 year old". But for most of us, our "sexiest days" are more than a few years ago. I got to thinking what age are we the most sexiest? My guess is around 23 for men, and 20 for women. At 23 men still have enough boyish charm, but with emerging adulthood. At 20, women have youth, and oncoming motherhood.
Those are my choices. What are yours?
 

I felt sexy until 65...the last two years have been ā€œmehā€.

I would say I was at my peak in my 40ā€™s though.

Maybe if there was a man in my life I would feel differently but I doubt it....
 
Never thought much about age in regard to sexiest

When young, I thought older wimin were sexy
Now that Iā€™m old, I think wimin more my age are sexy
Funny thing, theyā€™re the same age as the older ones back when

Giving it some thought, wimin seem to mature to a more perfect ripeness in their aging process
The young 20 and 30 somethings look good enough
But are missing a physical contrast, an agingā€¦.in places, but yet with the glorious form ofā€¦.wellā€¦woman!....WOOF!

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And that contrast so greatly enhances the attractiveness that remains

It could be the wrinkle of the corner of a smiling mouth or twinkling eye
Or even a bit of loose skin, caressing the glorious curves of womanhood

Thereā€™s probably a word or two for what Iā€™m trying to convey
Maybe wabi sabi
Characteristics of the wabi-sabi aesthetic include asymmetry, roughness, simplicity, economy, austerity,
modesty, intimacy, and appreciation of the ingenuous integrity of natural objects and processes.

But thatā€™s a bit deep for my simple thinking

I just know itā€™s always been prevalent in this noggin of mine

If they only knew, theyā€™d put away the spackle and trowel

Iā€™m not talking deep 80s
Thatā€™s when wit and snappy conversation had better take over
No, Iā€™m talkinā€™ 50s, 60s, and even 70s

My lady has it
I got lucky
She captivates me
....aaaand she likes my body hair, of which I gave up trying to keep mown

As for men?

I have no idea what wimin see in us

Leaning heavily on wit seems to help

In that regard, I guess we can be sorta cute

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My question was not HOW sexy anybody felt, but what age is a person considered the most attractive or sexiest? Let's be real. I'm sure there are many 92 year olds, who consider themselves to be sexy. Problem is no 92 year olds have won the Miss America Pageant. They don't even come in as Last Runner UP. While the 92 year old may be quite personable, I doubt that the majority of 20 year olds would consider her "attractive". At what age are men/women considered to be the most physically attractive to a majority of people????
 
For wife and I, in our 40's and early 50's. One word description we used on each other...ā€¦ā€¦.HOT looking!

As for me, I was on my horse a lot and at numerous rodeo arenas and doing some C & W dancing. Even though my wife was pretty HOT looking back in those days, and to me, she still is, she did have her own Agent and Portfolio as an "Extra" in movies. I've seen her Portfolio and...ā€¦ā€¦...WOW! One picture was her wearing a felt cowboy hat. Very, very cool (and I told her that). She told me how handsome I looked sitting in a saddle.

Now, just "how sexy"...ā€¦...well, that's a private matter. LOL
 
CeeCee said:
I felt sexy until 65...the last two years have been ā€œmehā€.

I would say I was at my peak in my 40ā€™s though.

Maybe if there was a man in my life I would feel differently but I doubt it....
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Well my father-in-law is 92 and lives alone ( my mother-in-law passed a couple of years back )

There are some widows around popping in occasionally ( they all look after each other ) but I see how happy my father-in-law gets ( and his face lights up ) . So this sexy thing could last right up until your death bed especially if u fall for your doctor or nurse - LMAO

SO IT AINT OVER TIL ITS OVER !
 
fuzzybuddy said:
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My question was not HOW sexy anybody felt, but what age is a person considered the most attractive or sexiest? Let's be real. I'm sure there are many 92 year olds, who consider themselves to be sexy. Problem is no 92 year olds have won the Miss America Pageant. They don't even come in as Last Runner UP. While the 92 year old may be quite personable, I doubt that the majority of 20 year olds would consider her "attractive". At what age are men/women considered to be the most physically attractive to a majority of people????
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I think it totally depends on the individual. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder," so a person who is attractive to me might not be to someone else. It goes without saying that the dewey, fresh looks of 20-30 year olds is probably the most appealing as far as physically attractive. But "sexy" is a lot more than physical appearance.
 
fuzzybuddy said:
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My question was not HOW sexy anybody felt, but what age is a person considered the most attractive or sexiest? Let's be real. I'm sure there are many 92 year olds, who consider themselves to be sexy. Problem is no 92 year olds have won the Miss America Pageant. They don't even come in as Last Runner UP. While the 92 year old may be quite personable, I doubt that the majority of 20 year olds would consider her "attractive". At what age are men/women considered to be the most physically attractive to a majority of people????
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Yes but now youā€™ve changed the question around. I think people can only speak for themselves but youā€™ve now turned sexy into just a physical attribute. This might be the main contributing factor for some people but to others physically beauty is merely skin deep. Also feelings have a LOT to do with feeling sexy, especially from a womenā€™s perspective. In my opinion I donā€™t think you can make any type of confirmed age bracket thatā€™s considered sexiest. Maybe at what age are people considered most physically appealing sexually would be more to what you are asking.

For myself if you donā€™t feel sexy then you arenā€™t. Sexiness comes from within first and is the expressed, if not itā€™s just a pretty face.
 
C'est Moi said:
I think it totally depends on the individual. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder," so a person who is attractive to me might not be to someone else. It goes without saying that the dewey, fresh looks of 20-30 year olds is probably the most appealing as far as physically attractive. But "sexy" is a lot more than physical appearance.
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Exactly my view.
 
So I guess itā€™s not at what age but how often it appears . It may go dormant for awhile in the same relationship and then reappear . It goes dormant because of stress - job demands - children etc

Competition may even awake it !

I donā€™t know but it has to be like fish spawning - some spawn early and others come in late
 
Gladiators280 said:
Well my father-in-law is 92 and lives alone ( my mother-in-law passed a couple of years back )

There are some widows around popping in occasionally ( they all look after each other ) but I see how happy my father-in-law gets ( and his face lights up ) . So this sexy thing could last right up until your death bed especially if u fall for your doctor or nurse - LMAO

SO IT AINT OVER TIL ITS OVER !
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At this point in my life, I only ask for two things from a man...a good sense of humor and handy around the house! :)
 
If looks don't matter when it comes to sex appeal then why is there plastic surgery, hair transplants, salons and millions of diets? Say what you want but 60 is not 30. When I was 30 I was approached by a womans in her early 50s and turned he down simply because I had no desire to see her naked. Father time is cruel.
 
fmdog44 said:
If looks don't matter when it comes to sex appeal then why is there plastic surgery, hair transplants, salons and millions of diets? Say what you want but 60 is not 30. When I was 30 I was approached by a womans in her early 50s and turned he down simply because I had no desire to see her naked. Father time is cruel.
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Because some people are vain and pretentious. :yes:
Nobody is saying 60 is 30 and itā€™s ok if you donā€™t get it.
 
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