David777
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Generally, over my long adult life, have been much less wealth, material, or money oriented than average men.
Some for which the OP's question tends to point to are those people, that enter into an unbalanced relationship with someone more wealthy and thus likely socially more powerful, not for love or sexual attractions but rather for money and what that can mean living an active, more interesting life. Especially if a family in a secure environment is desired. Classic is the young beautiful woman of no more than modest means that marries an older wealthy person for all that can provide.
The wealthy person if living in an active social mix of others may at some point become suspicious and jealous because they can expect some younger, more attractive males will behind their backs, hit on the woman, and they understand that from the beginning.
The perspective of we modest seniors of both genders is usually different. Beyond a point in middle age, sex and similar compatible life activities, becomes less a factor, though two people may still find such a relationship, pragmatically mutually beneficial to both parties.
In my personal case, as someone active near the senior end stage of my life, that given self control, has lived much of my adult life without the need for regular sex of any type, I don't have the usual strong drive by habit that most men still have into their latter years. That noted, if a wealthy older woman that besides being socially personally fun and intelligent, that I also find physically attractive, with similar life interests and activities, wants to form a relationship or marriage, I would tend to welcome whatever.
Some for which the OP's question tends to point to are those people, that enter into an unbalanced relationship with someone more wealthy and thus likely socially more powerful, not for love or sexual attractions but rather for money and what that can mean living an active, more interesting life. Especially if a family in a secure environment is desired. Classic is the young beautiful woman of no more than modest means that marries an older wealthy person for all that can provide.
The wealthy person if living in an active social mix of others may at some point become suspicious and jealous because they can expect some younger, more attractive males will behind their backs, hit on the woman, and they understand that from the beginning.
The perspective of we modest seniors of both genders is usually different. Beyond a point in middle age, sex and similar compatible life activities, becomes less a factor, though two people may still find such a relationship, pragmatically mutually beneficial to both parties.
In my personal case, as someone active near the senior end stage of my life, that given self control, has lived much of my adult life without the need for regular sex of any type, I don't have the usual strong drive by habit that most men still have into their latter years. That noted, if a wealthy older woman that besides being socially personally fun and intelligent, that I also find physically attractive, with similar life interests and activities, wants to form a relationship or marriage, I would tend to welcome whatever.
